"I HATE SEX" ... Why ?

She's got a guy on the side.
He needs to get out.

Well...it's proven couples have more sex (with each other) before they get married.....than after.

The first year might be the most....but downhill after that and having kids makes it even tougher.

Actually, by thread title, I thought my wife started this thread. :-)

Yeah Trident, but its a well known fact you are a lousy lay.

Yeah Trident, but its a well known fact you are a lousy lay. Originally Posted by pyramider

Totally not relevant to this discussion.

But it was worthwhile to state ...

My suggestion would be to tell your friend to find out what changed so suddenly after 13 years? Did she enjoy sex before then just started hating it? That sounds like a medical issue. Is she a fun chick to be around otherwise, and/or are there kids involved? Hell, just talking to her and asking questions may uncover signs of an affair if nothing else. Just leaving a marriage for something he suspects but doesn't know is kind of drastic however.

It could be all the special probes from the aliens...that tends to tire one out ya know...

It could be all the special probes from the aliens...that tends to tire one out ya know... Originally Posted by Satsuma957

Hell, I HATE sex too! Every time I think about it, it costs me money.

Pretty sure she's getting cock on the side.....probably young cock at that...

I know this is an older thread but I would love to get the ladies take on a theory I have been studying. The theory states that women are not built for monogamy. Women need mental stimulation that rarely comes from a single guy unless there is risk, challenge such as not being in a committed relationship. Since men really only need physical stimulation they tend to stay committed as long as they are getting what they need. The real problem is communication. The wife can't communicate that although she loves her husband, she is sexually bored. it all comes back to communication. Obviously this does not apply to all situations but an interesting theory.

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there is soo many theoretical posibilites the answer would be hard to speculate.
Originally Posted by JustMeCLTXGG

Agree with this and what everyone else is saying.

There are so many possibilities, be them physical, emotional, etc.

She could have her own issues stemming from physical problems or insecurities, or emotional issues concerning sex (bad childhood, abuse, etc etc etc).

She could just be mad at him for other reasons we do not know. Yes, he is your friend, but as they say, there are always three sides to the story: his side, her side, and the truth. So, they could have other marital/relationship issues that make her no longer wish to be intimate with him.

I agree that it definitely sounds like an excuse on her part. A very good example I have, is a personal one. I was in a relationship with a man for 8 years who was an emotional abuser and manipulator. In the beginning of the relationship, our sex life was amazing, and explosive, he couldn't keep his hands off me, etc etc etc. By the end, he had pretty much stopped having sex with me altogether, and every time I would try and discuss it with him, he would tell me similar things to this" it was him, "not me", he was feeling unsexual and insecure, etc etc. The truth was that he was fucking numerous women behind my back and using isolation of sex and affection as a way to abuse and control me.

So, it could even stem from something like this, and she is just lying to him.

The truth is, very few people in this world hate sex, because hey, it's sex and it is awesome!!!

So, am sure it is some other underlying issue causing this behavior.

people who hate SEX .
Originally Posted by TheAntichrist666

I've never met a guy who hates sex.
But I heard wedding cake kills a womans sex drive!
NH