...And Some Ladies Wonder Why Business Slows Down

Ba Baam!
Now we're talking!
The stimuli starts waaay on the front end ... where the woody tends to peak out beyond your control ... even before you tap on the door. EPIC! Originally Posted by Torre Tames

that's why i say IOP starts w/ the first communication a provider sends to a potential client (in response to an inquiry).

whaaaaaa? OK .. PMD ... can you order that extra dose of "hobby reality" .... from your day nurse and get your head straight?

I don't usually frown ... but this statement has me perplexed.

Why don't you see yourself as a 'nice guy' ....
should I be afraid of your answer?
The whole .... WINNNING .... thing ... just reminds me of Charlie Sheen ... who is out of his freeking mind.
I would do him in a hearts beat .... but I doubt he can get it up at this point with drug use and who knows what else.
You are not at this point .... yes? Originally Posted by Torre Tames

sorry, i forgot to add a laughing/attempt-at-humor smiley on that post.

btw, my head and lil delites have been straightened (and twisted) several times this week and in different states (as in USA-states). hopefully one more in the morning.

... Why don't you see yourself as a 'nice guy' .... Originally Posted by Torre Tames

i'm a fucking great guy. at least that's what some providers have told me :^}

As a provider, I want to say "thank you". Those are the type of messages that I respond to. When I receive messages such as, "Are you available?", "How much?", et cetera, I have a blanket template email I send that basically hits on email etiquette. I digress.

What I will say is don't take it too personally. While everyone is busy, we all make time for what we want to make time for. So, when I receive a well-thought out email and I don't have the time to respond as throughly, I will usually send a quick email back. It basically states that I've received their email, I'm running short on time, and that I will respond properly at my earliest convenience. I'm a one woman show, so patience on a client's end is wonderful.

So, when I receive a well-thought out email and I don't have the time to respond as throughly, I will usually send a quick email back. It basically states that I've received their email, I'm running short on time, and that I will respond properly at my earliest convenience. I'm a one woman show, so patience on a client's end is wonderful. Originally Posted by London-James

I wish more people do this, not just providers but RW communications as well. So frustrating when you communicate, they don't respond, so you think they didn't receive it or didn't care, but come to find out they did see it, but didn't have time or didn't know what to say.

Short sentence , and appointment information works well just saying

I would guess they responded when they were super short on time.
But...even then if I was short on time I'd let them know I'd follow up with a more thorough response when I have more time to sit. I'd rather give a quick short response than completely ignore it. But I definitely always follow up if that happens.
Sorry you've been having it so rough.

OK, so this is a bit of a rant..read it or not. Wonder if other gents feel the same. What the hell does it take for a lady to respond to a request with at least a little bit of enthusiasm?

As a courtesy when I respond to an ad, in a break the ice "get to know you effort" I take the time to write a polite, informative introductory PM, with details such as my age, my build, my style, my preferences (politely worded...). I also include the fact that I have P411 with active references, etc suggest a day and general time frame that might work to meet. Frequently I also ask an easily answered question or two, so I can get a feel for the person on the other end of the PM.

More than half the time, I get a one line or response, that conveys about the same amount of interest a fish has in a bicycle. Needless to say, I pass. Why would I want to spend time (forget the money) with someone who can't take a few moments to return the courtesy with a few quick lines? Hell no!

Is it just me? Am I that much of a dud? Is the green color of my money that faded? I know I'm no Brat Pitt, but I'm not Michael Moore either!

Sheesh! Originally Posted by Billy Babitt

I do get overwhelmed sometimes and you never know who is serious or just window shopping. Some just like to talk/text thats it and everyone wants to come at the same time it seems. Too many answers can get you in a bind as well as too much info.

LMAO, some interesting stuff on the Amazon wish list. Automatic Retractable Sex Machine for Women, Adjustable Speed Pumping Gun with Vagina Cup, Updated Version Female Love Machine Originally Posted by goodolboy

It's for the downtime.

It's for the downtime. Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

I think I like you, you have a sense of humor.

I do get overwhelmed sometimes and you never know who is serious or just window shopping. Some just like to talk/text thats it and everyone wants to come at the same time it seems. Too many answers can get you in a bind as well as too much info. Originally Posted by Peach Pleasure

I don't know about the subject, just wanted to be under Dani and this is as close as I'm able these days!

Good to see you sweetie!

When I PM a provider I only give the necessities/what they ask for. References mainly, time and duration of session, etc.

There is no perfect formula. A majority of my ATFs I just said "hi, lets meet up". Never even asked me for my Eccie handle or references. I don't think they even know my Eccie handle, lol.

Also, I have a hobby apartment I use for outcalls for most of my sessions (thats why I have it) and will get a response like its so and so for an outcall. I can read, thanks. Usually those responses go ignored. If you have to remind me that its a mere 25 or 50 for an outcall then I'm wasting my time on you.

I was told today by one of my clients that out of all the ladies he contacted I was the only one who didn't reply with one liners, seemed engaged in the conversation and genuinely interested in his idea for a session....

When he told me he put thought into it... I was excited... I love when the guy makes it fun, exciting and interesting for me too....

Sometimes one liners are appropriate.... But not for an initial contact...

Sometimes we have so many conversations going on at once.... Maybe your lady felt it was better to say something than nothing at all

When I PM a provider I only give the necessities/what they ask for. References mainly, time and duration of session, etc.

There is no perfect formula. A majority of my ATFs I just said "hi, lets meet up". Never even asked me for my Eccie handle or references. I don't think they even know my Eccie handle, lol.

Also, I have a hobby apartment I use for outcalls for most of my sessions (thats why I have it) and will get a response like its so and so for an outcall. I can read, thanks. Usually those responses go ignored. If you have to remind me that its a mere 25 or 50 for an outcall then I'm wasting my time on you. Originally Posted by Tronhorn356

They're reminding you so they don't get shorted... Too many times a hobbyist leaves out the outcall fee and expects us to just let it slide....

You act entitled to this hobby like escorts owe you something cause you have money......puuuuuullease....ge t outta here.... You're dealing with teenage providers....who don't even care to verify you or your handle or existance of references...

They're reminding you so they don't get shorted... Too many times a hobbyist leaves out the outcall fee and expects us to just let it slide....

You act entitled to this hobby like escorts owe you something cause you have money......puuuuuullease....ge t outta here.... You're dealing with teenage providers....who don't even care to verify you or your handle or existance of references... Originally Posted by Analeese

When their reply consists of nothing but the extra fee it's off putting. There are more tactful ways to remind a hobbyist. Not sure about others but after we agree on a time, I confirm the time, donation, location, and duration of the session.

I have never acted like anyone owes me anything or entitled. I don't haggle or try to lower the donation.

You guys are debating this type of shorting? Here's my favorite "Scheduled 30 minutes but went way over" Then in the fee section you proudly enter the escort's 30 minute rate. Why don't you just say; "I routinely and intentionally schedule 30 minutes and after the lady is kind enough to not be a clock watcher and allow me to stay an hour and a half I fucked her over and didn't pay her for the actual time I stayed, I paid for what I scheduled". What an absolute fucking joke. Yeah, 30 minutes; bbbjx3,mpcfsx2,greekx2. Yeah sure.

You guys are debating this type of shorting? Here's my favorite "Scheduled 30 minutes but went way over" Then in the fee section you proudly enter the escort's 30 minute rate. Why don't you just say; "I routinely and intentionally schedule 30 minutes and after the lady is kind enough to not be a clock watcher and allow me to stay an hour and a half I fucked her over and didn't pay her for the actual time I stayed, I paid for what I scheduled". What an absolute fucking joke. Yeah, 30 minutes; bbbjx3,mpcfsx2,greekx2. Yeah sure. Originally Posted by TheRealJohnnyRingo

I like this. Guys post in reviews they went way over but only paid the rate for shorter time look like assholes too stupid to know they're being rude to the girl. It's also not helping the girl by posting that because other cheap guys will latch onto that expecting extra time too. There's something called YMMV...you keep some things to yourself.