See provider in public; what to do

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This has happenned to me FIVE times. Twice at Quick Trip, once at Grocery Store, once at Wal Mart and once at a Restaurant. At the time at the restuarant, the provider was our waitress. At all of them other than the restaurant, I simply smiled and kept going. It is about MUTUAL respect. I didn't know who was with her. She didn't know who was with me. This business is behind closed doors (mostly! LOL!) and should be kept there. One provider called me by my Hobby name and said HI! Luckily, I was alone because my hobby name and real name are not the same! So, that could have been bad. I just think that a provider has to have her own time and life away from the hobby when she doesn't want to be recognized or communicated with. Obviously, the same is true for the hobbiest who need discretion!
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  • Fsn57
  • 12-01-2011, 08:21 AM
This is why I don't like to play in my backyard with locals. I will see visiting providers (that's why I like to see KC providers visit) or see providers when I'm out of town. But discretion is too important to me to play with locals.
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I've ran into clients at restaurants, malls, etc., we glance at each other and keep walking. Originally Posted by MsElena
or a quick smile - who was that might be asked? I don't know! Just smiled at me! Guess I'm just cute? Right?

Didn't Dionne Warwick sing a song like that? Walk On By. Originally Posted by MsElena
(Theme From) Valley Of The Dolls
A House Is Not A Home
After You
Alfie
All The Love In The World<
Alma Inocente
Any Old Time Of The Day<
Anyone Who Had A Heart
April Fools
Bendicion Mami
Call Of The Dung Beetle<
Cojanlo Suave
Deja Vu
Do You Know The Way To San Jose
Dont Make Me Over
Freestyle Ghetto
Friends In Love
Furious
Heartbreaker
I Always Get Caught In The Rain
I Just Don't Know What To Do With Myself<
I Say A Little Prayer
I'll Never Fall In Love Again<
It's You
Iīll Never Love This Way Again<
Let Me Go To Him
Love Boat Theme
Make It Easy On Yourself
Message To Michael
Mr Kiss Kiss Bang Bang
No Night So Long
On My Way
Promises, Promises
Reach Out For Me
Thatīs What Friends Are For
The Ghetto
Tiempo De Empezar
Valley Of The Dolls
Walk On By
What The World Needs Now Is Love
Who Is Gonna Love Me
Windows Of The World
You'll Never Get To Heaven (If You Break My Heart
You've Lost That Loving Feeling
Well it is on her list. Is it the same lyrics:
Aretha Franklin did it too! - Walk On By:
If you see me walking down the street
And I start to cry each time we meet
Walk on by, walk on by
Make believe
That you don't see the tears
Just let me grieve
In private 'cause each time I see you
I break down and cry
And walk on by (don't stop)
And walk on by (don't stop)
And walk on by

I just can't get over losing you
And so if I seem broken and blue
Walk on by, walk on by

Foolish pride
Lyrics www.allthelyrics.com/lyrics/bandits_soundtrack/
Is all that I have left
So let me hide
The tears and the sadness you gave me
When you said goodbye
Walk on by
And walk on by
And walk by (don't stop)

Walk on by, walk on by
Foolish pride
Is all that I have left
So let me hide
The tears and the sadness you gave me
When you said goodbye
Walk on by (don't stop)
And walk on by (don't stop)
And walk by (don't stop)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wr1EkQ-hPOM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ApMrx...eature=related

LJim Reeves Lyrics to Just Walk On By:
If I see you tomorrow on some street in town
Pardon me if I don't say hello
I belong to another, it wouldn't look so good
To know someone I'm not suppose to know

Just walk on by, wait on the corner
I love you but we're strangers when we meet.

In a dimly lit corner, at a place outside of town.
Tonight we'll try to say goodbye again.
But I know it's not over, I'll call tomorrow night
I can't let you go so why pretend.

Just walk on by, wait on the corner
I love you but we're strangers when we meet.

I love you but we're strangers when we meet.
Lyrics www.allthelyrics.com/lyrics/jim_reeves/