The hobby ruining future domesticated life of unfulfilled sexual desires?

Some of us have a freaky side in and out of the hobby. And I know quite a few ladies have that. Originally Posted by TemptationTammie
Introduce me lol
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I wouldn't call myself freaky or particularly kinky. I just enjoy very active, athletic super intense deep fukkin' bonedowns and I have a rather high sex drive. Despite any conclusions one may draw from me being in this industry, I'm naturally monogamous and love that deep intensity that comes with sex and intimacy with someone you actually care about.

But in each of my long-term relationships my sexuality has become a problem with time. Of course my sweethearts loved it at first, and then whispered insecurities would begin to surface like: "I feel like if I'm not at peak performance all the time, every time, you'll be dissatisfied and look elsewhere." or "Um, where did you learn THAT?" "You exude sex, I feel like I have to fight dudes off all the time." and a host of other little asides until their own personal sexual insecurities self immolated the relationship.

You know that Dr. Hook "When You're in Love with a Beautiful Woman" song? Change it to "When You're in Love with a Sexually Driven Woman" and the lyrics still ring true.

So be careful what you ask for. You might get it and likely not know what to do with it.
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What is fetlife
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  • 07-18-2016, 10:00 AM

You know that Dr. Hook "When You're in Love with a Beautiful Woman" song? Change it to "When You're in Love with a Sexually Driven Woman" and the lyrics still ring true.

So be careful what you ask for. You might get it and likely not know what to do with it. Originally Posted by Miss Valentina
"I got a freeky ole lady, name uh ******* Katie who embrodries on my jeans"


Staff edit, Spice- No drug references allowed in any context.
I wouldn't call myself freaky or particularly kinky. I just enjoy very active, athletic super intense deep fukkin' bonedowns and I have a rather high sex drive. Despite any conclusions one may draw from me being in this industry, I'm naturally monogamous and love that deep intensity that comes with sex and intimacy with someone you actually care about.

But in each of my long-term relationships my sexuality has become a problem with time. Of course my sweethearts loved it at first, and then whispered insecurities would begin to surface like: "I feel like if I'm not at peak performance all the time, every time, you'll be dissatisfied and look elsewhere." or "Um, where did you learn THAT?" "You exude sex, I feel like I have to fight dudes off all the time." and a host of other little asides until their own personal sexual insecurities self immolated the relationship.

You know that Dr. Hook "When You're in Love with a Beautiful Woman" song? Change it to "When You're in Love with a Sexually Driven Woman" and the lyrics still ring true.

So be careful what you ask for. You might get it and likely not know what to do with it. Originally Posted by Miss Valentina
I promise you I can handle every bit of that I've seen a couple pornstars that I haven't reviewed on here, and they are always surprised by something I did being a civvy that they haven't experienced before that I don't even realized I'm doing or how long I can go. I'm like really? All the crazy porn you have done and you never saw that? lol It always has me thinking, wow I could be a pornstar if I wanted and make some easy $$$$ haha. Add me on your potential dating options list if you're looking for unlimited sex drive lol.
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  • 07-18-2016, 10:53 AM
I promise you I can handle every bit of that I've seen a couple pornstars that I haven't reviewed on here, and they are always surprised by something I did being a civvy that they haven't experienced before that I don't even realized I'm doing or how long I can go. I'm like really? All the crazy porn you have done and you never saw that? lol It always has me thinking, wow I could be a pornstar if I wanted and make some easy $$$$ haha. Add me on your potential dating options list if you're looking for unlimited sex drive lol. Originally Posted by galaxon00
Soooo they told you "OMG BABY YOU ARE THE BEST! NO ONE HAS EVER MADE ME CUM THAT MANY TIMES"!!!

Soooo they told you "OMG BABY YOU ARE THE BEST! NO ONE HAS EVER MADE ME CUM THAT MANY TIMES"!!!

Originally Posted by Toyz
Lol, exactly : http://www.theonion.com/blogpost/i-t...liked-me-10883
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  • 07-18-2016, 11:58 AM
What is fetlife Originally Posted by artist6338
Google is your friend:

https://fetlife.com/

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There are also a few different swinger sites, as well as kik and yahoo groups for swingers and fetishes.
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Tammie, there's a few of us that I feel should simply hold seminars to educate the uninformed. Fellas, (not all of you for sure) there are a hellofalot of sites, locally and nationally that are open to play, kink, sex and anything your lil ol' heart desires. And, no doubt more right here in the River City (Austin) than most of you even imagined. LOLOL
Soooo they told you "OMG BABY YOU ARE THE BEST! NO ONE HAS EVER MADE ME CUM THAT MANY TIMES"!!!

Originally Posted by Toyz
It was more like stuff like:

Them: You shot out more cum than any male talent I ever been with.

Them: Are you sure you haven't done porn before?

Them: That was the weirdest position I ever been in for that.

Them: That was my first time doing that.

Her: OK I'm done. I'm exhausted.

Me (thinking in my head): Are you serious? You did a rough sex gangbang all holes filled with 6 dudes for over an hour???

These are women with multiple scenes under their belt that have done everything under the sun. I couldn't believe it lol.
There are also a few different swinger sites, as well as kik and yahoo groups for swingers and fetishes. Originally Posted by TemptationTammie
Tammie, there's a few of us that I feel should simply hold seminars to educate the uninformed. Fellas, (not all of you for sure) there are a hellofalot of sites, locally and nationally that are open to play, kink, sex and anything your lil ol' heart desires. And, no doubt more right here in the River City (Austin) than most of you even imagined. LOLOL Originally Posted by nuglet

PM me a list if either of you two don't mind.
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  • 07-18-2016, 01:08 PM
It was more like stuff like:

Them: You shot out more cum than any male talent I ever been with.

Them: Are you sure you haven't done porn before?

Them: That was the weirdest position I ever been in for that.

Them: That was my first time doing that.

Her: OK I'm done. I'm exhausted.

Me (thinking in my head): Are you serious? You did a rough sex gangbang all holes filled with 6 dudes for over an hour???

These are women with multiple scenes under their belt that have done everything under the sun. I couldn't believe it lol. Originally Posted by galaxon00
YOU ARE MY HERO GALAXON!!! When I grow up I wanna be you!
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OK, OK, OK after reading this thread..I have come to understand we all have a debauchery in us and can never be satisfied. It goes beyond our rational and irrational minds but to the inner self and self catering... yep that's it
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Guess I'm lucky. My s/o is gorgeous and I'm extremely into her (I just have WAAAAAAY MORE desire, so I've sought lots of fun in the hobby). She's definitely not willing to do the things these gals do, but I've been able to separate my wild side from our sex life. It keeps me from harassing her to do things she's not into. It's made out sec life better. Of course, she has no idea of my hobby.