Board personas and the hobby...

Ok you're gonna need to explain this one to me, I'm lost...How did I get dragged into this shit? Originally Posted by Valerie

LOL, I guess because your hot, smart and have his affection. Fo'Realz uses that line all the time.

I knew there was a reason I didn't like him Originally Posted by dearhunter

Like you needed ANOTHER reason??

Don't be fooled here, WU is a drama whore... Originally Posted by casablanca2627

I'm pretty sure no one here is fooled anymore peaches...if they're still fooled, I'm doing it wrong...

Ok you're gonna need to explain this one to me, I'm lost...How did I get dragged into this shit? Originally Posted by Valerie

Guilt by association?

We need more "Z's" inseted as "S's"........ Its much more "street"....... Word to your mother figure and whatnot......

JaD

Does one's board persona have an impact on your decision to see someone or put you off from seeing them?


Guys- Do you get put off by providers that are constantly creating drama on the boards/attention whores etc..To the point that you wouldn't even consider booking them? Originally Posted by Valerie

The answer to both of your questions is...NOPE!

Valerie, it makes a HUGE difference for me in deciding who I'll see. I want to chime in a bit, because the whole concept of a "board persona" strikes me as something of a red herring. To continue using the Wakeup "persona" as our example, it's amazing how many of the inner circle have posted something along the lines of, "You know, in real life, he's really a nice guy." He probably is, I wouldn't know. But I wonder about people that have a need to make this board, or any other, some kind of alternative outlet for expression of emotions and attitudes that they don't have in their everyday lives. And people shouldn't get a pass for being assholes because it's "only a SHMB persona". I actually hope I get to meet the real Wakeup one day, I'm pretty sure it'd be fascinating. I really don't want to turn this thread into a blast Wakeup thread, but since you brought him up and he's close to home, I thought I'd continue with that example.

As for providers... I hobby because I like my sex to be adventurous, drama-free, and on my schedule. Anything a provider, "persona" or otherwise, posts that leads me to believe those three conditions aren't going to be met, is usually crossed off the list.

Hope this was helpful, and best wishes with the hormonal stuff.

I wouldn't see a lot of guys due to how they act on the board even though i know everyone (men&women) that always stir up things are all talk behind the monitor. When in person they wouldn't dare say any of the things they will say behind a monitor. Lol those guys and gal(lol) entertain me

The answer to both of your questions is...NOPE! Originally Posted by DickEmDown

SO when we fuckin again? Lmao

Valerie, it makes a HUGE difference for me in deciding who I'll see. I want to chime in a bit, because the whole concept of a "board persona" strikes me as something of a red herring. To continue using the Wakeup "persona" as our example, it's amazing how many of the inner circle have posted something along the lines of, "You know, in real life, he's really a nice guy." He probably is, I wouldn't know. But I wonder about people that have a need to make this board, or any other, some kind of alternative outlet for expression of emotions and attitudes that they don't have in their everyday lives. And people shouldn't get a pass for being assholes because it's "only a SHMB persona". I actually hope I get to meet the real Wakeup one day, I'm pretty sure it'd be fascinating. I really don't want to turn this thread into a blast Wakeup thread, but since you brought him up and he's close to home, I thought I'd continue with that example.

As for providers... I hobby because I like my sex to be adventurous, drama-free, and on my schedule. Anything a provider, "persona" or otherwise, posts that leads me to believe those three conditions aren't going to be met, is usually crossed off the list.

Hope this was helpful, and best wishes with the hormonal stuff. Originally Posted by TransAm

I definitely understand what you're saying...and thank you

Guilt by association?



JaD Originally Posted by Jusanotherdude

Apparently ...And you've been too quiet lately Mr!

To continue using the Wakeup "persona" as our example, it's amazing how many of the inner circle have posted something along the lines of, "You know, in real life, he's really a nice guy." He probably is, I wouldn't know. But I wonder about people that have a need to make this board, or any other, some kind of alternative outlet for expression of emotions and attitudes that they don't have in their everyday lives. Originally Posted by TransAm

I was with you right up until that spot. I've told people this before, I'm the same person here as I am out there. The difference is that there are a lot fewer blatantly obvious idiots out there than in here for me to interact with, so it's a lot more rare to see what you call the "Wakeup persona" out there. Have no fear, it's there, because it's who I am.

And people shouldn't get a pass for being assholes because it's "only a SHMB persona". Originally Posted by TransAm

I'm interested to know why you think I get a pass. I'm inferring that from your statement of course, but I doubt that there's even a handful of other people on this board who are more scrutinized than I am. I don't get a pass, I'm just incredibly adept at playing within the rules.

I actually hope I get to meet the real Wakeup one day, I'm pretty sure it'd be fascinating. Originally Posted by TransAm

Actually, I am pretty damn fascinating...

Wix is the new Rare Escorts! (Hopefully more stable and efficient. Definitely better technology. Built my site on Wix, too.) I like your new website, Valerie. The opening photo is killer! You're so blond you'd blend in during a blizzard. We'd have to find you by looking for those long, dark eyelashes sticking up out of the snow.

What would you want in the flask carried by the rescue St. Bernard? (I have my preferences for warm liquid.)

Wix is the new Rare Escorts! (Hopefully more stable and efficient. Definitely better technology. My site's hosted by them, too.) I like your new website, Valerie. The opening photo is killer! You're so blond you'd blend in during a blizzard. We'd have to find you in the snow by looking for those long, dark eyelashes sticking up.

What would you want in the flask carried by the rescue St. Bernard? Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Thanks love... I find Wix to be very straightforward and don't really have any complaints about them!

I think I'll take some warm Grand Marnier in that flask

I was with you right up until that spot. I've told people this before, I'm the same person here as I am out there. The difference is that there are a lot fewer blatantly obvious idiots out there than in here for me to interact with, so it's a lot more rare to see what you call the "Wakeup persona" out there. Have no fear, it's there, because it's who I am.


I'm interested to know why you think I get a pass. I'm inferring that from your statement of course, but I doubt that there's even a handful of other people on this board who are more scrutinized than I am. I don't get a pass, I'm just incredibly adept at playing within the rules.


Actually, I am pretty damn fascinating... Originally Posted by Wakeuр

WU, let me clarify, because I wasn't implying you DO get a pass. It'd be pretty hard to say on this board who does or does not get a pass because discipline is so UTR. So let me say this. I don't know if you're an asshole or not. I know from your posts that you CAN be, but I know I can be too, so I'm ok with that. 80% of the time, you're simply funny as hell. There's a 20% mean streak that I don't care for. As an example, you're "everybody dies" comment in BW's sick mother thread. That wasn't funny or appropriate. All that said, the line between funny and mean can be a pretty damn thin one, and I often find myself in the same position in the real world, so I get it.

I don't know if online WU is the same as the real world WU, you'd definitely know that better than me. Enough people have said it that it's kinda acquired a truth on its own, I suppose. And I get the whole "confronted by idiocy" thing, and it being more prevalent on this board.

I laugh at you when you're funny, and I'm not scared to call you out when you're acting like a dick. I hope you'd do the same for me. Friends?

Well generally I'm a bitch and my board personality reflected that. I've been told I have no filter meaning I don't when the things I'm going to say are inappropriate. Most everyone who knows me usually ignore what I have to say or take it with a grain of salt. But, I've learned to be sweet on the board and ignore post that irritate me & to definitely watch, but stay out of the drama LOL!

I wouldn't turn down a guy because of what he post online he is well entitled to his own opinion, but I do read the post of gents who PM me and recently turned down a guy because of his posting style he is negative with a capital N about everything and actually had a staff edited racial slur .... Can you pass?? On top of that he was an arrogant ass that refused to do his research.

I don't know if online WU is the same as the real world WU, you'd definitely know that better than me. Enough people have said it that it's kinda acquired a truth on its own, I suppose. And I get the whole "confronted by idiocy" thing, and it being more prevalent on this board.

I laugh at you when you're funny, and I'm not scared to call you out when you're acting like a dick. I hope you'd do the same for me. Friends? Originally Posted by TransAm

Real life WU & Online WU are the same guy........ Wanna know the difference? The tone in which the words leave his mouth in person differs than the one you hear in your head while reading his posts. Thats all. One sentance can mean 12 different things depending on the way its spoken.

Apparently ...And you've been too quiet lately Mr! Originally Posted by Valerie

Yeah..... Sorry bout that...... Real life needed me for a bit..... It happens..... Nice to see your smiling (or pouty lipped) face as always!

JaD