Judging and What you don't know can't hurt you.....
I can only state that a good client did not tell my friend his handle as he was a real ass online but a real kitten in sessions. He never disclosed his handle until he had become a weekly regular and it slipped out...He was over all a good client and an ass online....Some people really just adopt an online persona. He omitted the truth yet it worked, she would have never seen him if she knew his handle...