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Most challenging Relationship thus far and a learning experience most definitely . . . Originally Posted by berkleigh
Thanks for the honesty lady...
Trying to control who you love is like trying to catch rain drops with your hands. Love doesn't have a memory. We all have pasts! You just happen to know some of hers and she some of yours. Your ability to make it isn't hinged on your pasts but in your futures! Originally Posted by baldbrothaSO NAILED IT!
I've had a few regular ladies drop the "L" word on me Originally Posted by TinManI'm not meaning to hijack the thread, but I'm curious as to how you differentiate "hooker talk" (a crude but accurate term I'll use to describe words used to provoke an emotional response in a man and manipulate him) from something that's more real?
Trying to control who you love is like trying to catch rain drops with your hands. Love doesn't have a memory. We all have pasts! You just happen to know some of hers and she some of yours. Your ability to make it isn't hinged on your pasts but in your futures! Originally Posted by baldbrothaSo very true. Well done!
I'm not meaning to hijack the thread, but I'm curious as to how you differentiate "hooker talk" (a crude but accurate term I'll use to describe words used to provoke an emotional response in a man and manipulate him) from something that's more real?I don't think you will ever know until the chips are down on your end and see how the provider responds
I once bought into such talk. The result was not something I'd like to go through again, and it's made me very leery about believing anything a woman says beyond, "Thanks for the donation." Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot
I don't think you will ever know until the chips are down on your end and see how the provider responds Originally Posted by ThatdudeGet her to put the chips down on her end first. That's the only way I could see it having a chance. Ladies know what they want and how to get it. They just don't initiate well or vocalize it at first. If you put it out there first, prepare to get shattered. Once its out there though, women will talk you to death about it.
Get her to put the chips down on her end first. That's the only way I could see it having a chance. Ladies know what they want and how to get it. They just don't initiate well or vocalize it at first. If you put it out there first, prepare to get shattered. Once its out there though, women will talk you to death about it.You missed my point Sir Lancehernot asked how can you tell if a provider is speaking hooker talk or being genuine with whatever she is saying. I was saying I don;t think you can really tell until you may fall on hard luck or your in a bad spot. Which also applies to real or fake friends. I honestly hope no lady I see is ever down on her luck and of course myself too
I personally genuinely like most women a lot, but I am real guarded when it comes to talking about it with them. I'm sagitarius, I fall in love daily, sometimes more often. 99.9% of the time its temporary though. But in this case, I'd make her reveal first, then ee can decide how to proceed.
For anyone serious, if she is hot, the sex is fantastic, she is healthy, and lastly good with money; go for it. Most relationships fail over sex, money or both. My current SO is on the hook for sex right now , imagine that...... She pretty much knows it too. I gave her everything she wants and more. Originally Posted by pfmtony
I'm not meaning to hijack the thread, but I'm curious as to how you differentiate "hooker talk" (a crude but accurate term I'll use to describe words used to provoke an emotional response in a man and manipulate him) from something that's more real?Not all 'hookers' are capable of manipulation. In fact all of my 'non-hooker' friends are much better at it than I. Most non-hookers who marry men for their money spend their whole lives in this lie. At least we are honest, tell it like it is, and charge a fair price. In your case, she just so happened to be a hooker.
I once bought into such talk. The result was not something I'd like to go through again, and it's made me very leery about believing anything a woman says beyond, "Thanks for the donation." Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot
Not all 'hookers' are capable of manipulation. In fact all of my 'non-hooker' friends are much better at it than I. Most non-hookers who marry men for their money spend their whole lives in this lie. At least we are honest, tell it like it is, and charge a fair price. In your case, she just so happened to be a hooker. Originally Posted by East Indian AnjuliYou are right, some women are masters of deception. My grossest experience with this was my first wife throwing herself at me when I told her it was over. We hadn't done it in months, maybe even a year. I had been sleeping on the sofa and all of the sudden she was on her knees undoing my belt. That is the least I've ever wanted sex in my life, but she was willing to do anything to keep her coin..... Sick.