Don’t bother getting close, it will not do you any good. I suppose some of us have to make that decision and see it was pointless. I would drove her to her meetings and appointments. As stated before, only they can save themselves... Originally Posted by TheRealI did drive her to appointments with counseling sessions, doctors, DSS, auto bureau, grocery stores, drug store for prescriptions, and hospitals when things got too bad. I also took her to many movies, dinners, festivals, trips to Letchworth Park (she loved it there) and more. You are correct when you say that only they can save themselves. All I accomplished was to buy her more time on this earth. That she used it to sell herself in order to buy more drugs was a constant and huge disappointment. I had her all set up after her last rehab with a place to live with supervision, a car, a choice of three part time jobs, and I had her enrolled in college to finish her degree so that she could find a safe, legal job and move on with her life. Instead, she turned to drugs again.
Some people on here think they share no responsibility for what happened to Sienna, and others like her, but they are wrong. In this country, we have always operated under the concept that we are, indeed, our brother's keeper and we desire help when we need it just a much as others desire and need it from us. Let's man up and admit culpability in some way. This is a dangerous and illegal hobby and it drags down too many women who either can't or won't make the right decisions.