Works both ways
I have mostly asian friends and nothing worse than a hot 20+ Asian girl showing recognition at Asian restaurant or H-Mart
Been lucky so far that none have approached, but the big Smile and recognition are still concerning.
Well, maybe you were looking so hot and approachable at that moment, that he felt overly compelled to say something.
I'm sure he meant well. Maybe he didn't want to waste an opportunity to see a provider that he really covets. One thing about us guys, many of us, is, we hate to blow a prime opportunity. Nothing is worst to us than saying to ourselves afterwards is, 'I should've...'.
Maybe he realized his error afterwards. Aww, man. I came on a little strong. She's going to hate me now. He probably feels bad about it. Now you've come on the board and cussed him out and shit, people piling on. His psyche is DESTROYED now.
Nothing's worse than a man with no confidence.
Forgive him, ~Ze~, and you will be blessed.
Btw, do we actually pronounce ~~'s in your name, or.....how does that work, exactly? Originally Posted by Rambro Creed
Interesting that you all lead such intriguing lives, that even a brief moment of interacting with another human (of the opposite sex, particularly) sets off these cues, bells, whistles, and red flags...apparently to whomever's already suspicious about your Batman style nightlife. If life is that complicated for you, then [whispering] maybe you shouldn't be showing your face pics on a hooker board (for those that it applies to).In the interest of fairness... the OP does not post facial pics.. or any OTHER pics for that matter.
Originally Posted by Rambro Creed
In the interest of fairness... the OP does not post facial pics.. or any OTHER pics for that matter.If the guy had walked up and literally said out loud, "Hey, ~Ze~!! How's it going?", I doubt anyone would've cared...or paid much attention.
Moreover-- the simple fact that she didn't flat out put the moron on blast, handle and all, shows a level of forgiveness. But the reminder that such behavior is a poor decision is good for all. Originally Posted by GracePreston
Therein lies the problem Rambro, other folks and people not knowledgable about Eccie might have thought "oh, they're a cute couple" seeing them standing together talking. But what if her Husband or BF had just walked to the next isle to get his favorite cereal? Oh and hey what if her Husband or BF is friends with the Manager of that Supermarket? Maybe her kid was over in the candy isle, or the restroom? Now do you see where the problem is? Originally Posted by no glove no love+1
Therein lies the problem Rambro, other folks and people not knowledgable about Eccie might have thought "oh, they're a cute couple" seeing them standing together talking. But what if her Husband or BF had just walked to the next isle to get his favorite cereal? Oh and hey what if her Husband or BF is friends with the Manager of that Supermarket? Maybe her kid was over in the candy isle, or the restroom? Now do you see where the problem is? Originally Posted by no glove no loveSure, I guess. That could happen. I see hot chicks all the time that are suddenly joined by a guy out of nowhere with one item in his hands to dump in a basket she's pushing. And I've thought to myself, "Damn. I'm glad I didn't go over and make a move."
*Was it daft behaviour? Yes. Do I think he meant malice? No. Maybe, he was too young, or too uneducated on etiquette? I think he showed bad judgement and nothing more. If he had wanted to muck things up he could've done far, far worse. Having a go at the blokes bad use of judgement isn't a logical way of changing poor choice making. We all agree he behaved like a cunt, now let's get on with it. Originally Posted by Don't Be Daft!What acted like a C? How about a P? dude