I met someone from here once who told me my model of being NONgfe is a "California thing" lol. Also, I have two reviews here that say I offer bbbj, but I don't. Everything is ALWAYS covered with me PERIOD and that is never negotiable. I wasn't sure if it was a typo, or if they thought that it would help my business here since bbbj does seem to be the standard.
Either way, just stand your ground girl and never do anything you're not comfortable with. I have plenty of regulars who love to see me, a lot of them wish I would offer bbbj, but they are still happy with me because I make up for it other ways such as my sweet demeanor and ability to connect with them on other levels.
I feel like if you offer good service overall, bbbj is not a necessity.