Lurkers

Sorry about the multiple postings. Obviously a major glitch in the Eccie software yesterday. I couldn’t post on this thread at all. Then today they all show up. Mods, please remove the redundant posts. I only intended to post it once.

Originally Posted by myren1900

The site has slowed down a lot, it can not keep up with a normal typing speed.

A second problem was the lack of ability to hold onto the size settings. Change to a different section of the site, and loose the magnification that makes it easy to read. I keep hitting the magnification commands 5 times to bring it back.

Anyone else having these type of problems. My machine settings are the same, as last week.

I'm fine with lurkers, as long as they have good screening info otherwise to back things up.

Some posting history is nice, including for screening, one way or another. Most heavy posters are actually on my DNS list.

I have a friend who isn't active at all on here or the other site, but is active in banging chicks on both sites.
He is younger and married, he has a high profile job. He is more worried about getting caught with digital evidence. His home life and situation really sucks.

I have had MFM threesomes with him and providers. I have been his reference with providers that I have been with before.

He has never posted on here, he has never reviewed on here. But he is active in the hobby world.

I see nothing wrong with being private. If that's your thing, go for it.

No, it doesn't bother many people since the dues are FREE. You get what you pay for, except in some cases. However, to your point, lurkers (shoppers) will always shop and providers will always provide, and complainers about Eccie will always complain. One thing that will never change is that the goose with the golden egg, has the real power. Never forget that.

I have a friend who isn't active at all on here or the other site, but is active in banging chicks on both sites.
He is younger and married, he has a high profile job. He is more worried about getting caught with digital evidence. His home life and situation really sucks.

I have had MFM threesomes with him and providers. I have been his reference with providers that I have been with before.

He has never posted on here, he has never reviewed on here. But he is active in the hobby world.

I see nothing wrong with being private. If that's your thing, go for it. Originally Posted by Warptcuck

Very well articulated.

A lurker to me is someone that does no reviews or make any posts at all

It's okay to lurk if you're actually okay with screening but a lot of lurkers are not because they are so afraid of getting caught. But these are also the same people who refuse to get p411 to make screening easier

some people are okay with taking a risk and seeing a person that makes no post, no reviews, or submit any information as far as screening but I refuse and if that's a loss then it's just a loss

It's okay to lurk if you're actually okay with screening but a lot of lurkers are not because they are so afraid of getting caught. But these are also the same people who refuse to get p411 to make screening easier

some people are okay with taking a risk and seeing a person that makes no post, no reviews, or submit any information as far as screening but I refuse and if that's a loss then it's just a loss Originally Posted by Sienna91

It’s definitely worth it to go thru the screening process. I know it makes me feel more comfortable with the session.

It gets on my nerves when a guy tries to see me but isn’t willing to go thru screening. What are they so afraid of and if they are so torn about getting caught I don’t feel like they should even be on the website looking for girls & a lot of us girls shouldn’t give in to guys who aren’t verified hobbyists.

I have been a lurker for many years. I posted a review in the ASPD days and got flamed for it unmercifully. I hold a grudge and will not post another review.

If you don’t post reviews then you should be able to provide some other type of verification such as p411..

It's okay to lurk if you're actually okay with screening but a lot of lurkers are not because they are so afraid of getting caught. But these are also the same people who refuse to get p411 to make screening easier

some people are okay with taking a risk and seeing a person that makes no post, no reviews, or submit any information as far as screening but I refuse and if that's a loss then it's just a loss Originally Posted by Sienna91

It’s definitely worth it to go thru the screening process. I know it makes me feel more comfortable with the session.

It gets on my nerves when a guy tries to see me but isn’t willing to go thru screening. What are they so afraid of and if they are so torn about getting caught I don’t feel like they should even be on the website looking for girls & a lot of us girls shouldn’t give in to guys who aren’t verified hobbyists. Originally Posted by Sunshine Lovely

If you don’t post reviews then you should be able to provide some other type of verification such as p411.. Originally Posted by Sunshine Lovely

The question becomes what kind of information do you want for screening. If you want real world info, at least 90% of the guys here are smart enough not to fall for that. Most of us can give you all the references that you need, and are willing to do so. Also in my 10 years here there has been only 1 negative post about me in the ladies area that I know of. If those 2 things aren't enough, I just move on.

some of us do it because we don,t have the funds too too a lady at times, but when i have the funds too see someone, i usually do a review, but the lady i was seeing is kinda out pocket for awhile, and the reviews i got on my profille are old or far in between, and the ladies won,t verified because they gone under the radar, and some of the new ones don,t want a reveiw written, so what you suppose too do now, LOL

The question becomes what kind of information do you want for screening. If you want real world info, at least 90% of the guys here are smart enough not to fall for that. Most of us can give you all the references that you need, and are willing to do so. Also in my 10 years here there has been only 1 negative post about me in the ladies area that I know of. If those 2 things aren't enough, I just move on. Originally Posted by rcinokc

The only time I've ever requested real world info is when a guy had no references and no reviews they didn't mind giving that info because there would be no other way for verification. But that is very few and far in-between because I don't get many people like that.

Personally I would prefer everyone to be on p411. I don't like having to even ask for real world info. And most of my people now come from p411.

It's just a lot easier and you don't have to call around for references. Because some girls take days to reply back or don't reply back at all which is why references is one of my last resort screening methods I rather the person have reviews or p411because it's impossible to get a last-minute appointment when you have to do all this texting and emailing girls back and forth

some of us do it because we don,t have the funds too too a lady at times, but when i have the funds too see someone, i usually do a review, but the lady i was seeing is kinda out pocket for awhile, and the reviews i got on my profille are old or far in between, and the ladies won,t verified because they gone under the radar, and some of the new ones don,t want a reveiw written, so what you suppose too do now, LOL Originally Posted by jwj6o

Get on p411

Why would it bother the girls?