Is it really so hard to believe that women get into sex work because they enjoy it to some degree?

It’s crazy to me that you guys think you all know what us ladies think and feel, sometimes we make special connections with these gentlemen be it fat skinny ugly good looking, this is like us saying how you think and feel, people fall in love in the hobby all the time so why do y’all think it’s just about money, that’s a big part hell everyone that works wants their money at the end of the day. Anyway carry on with the sausage fest here. Some of you would be very surprised at how we think! Originally Posted by Cendell M
Hey don't lump me in with these guys, i agree with you.
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It’s crazy to me that you guys think you all know what us ladies think and feel, sometimes we make special connections with these gentlemen be it fat skinny ugly good looking, this is like us saying how you think and feel, people fall in love in the hobby all the time so why do y’all think it’s just about money, that’s a big part hell everyone that works wants their money at the end of the day. Anyway carry on with the sausage fest here. Some of you would be very surprised at how we think! Originally Posted by Cendell M
I agree that there are some ladies who do enjoy what they do as a provider and the money they get is just a bonus. But you do have to admit, most providers in it for the money only and let the client know that through their action or non action BCD.

I never go by what a provider puts in her ad or what she says on a thread talking about how great she is because those are words. Actions speak louder than words. And since your brought it up, how many clients that you see for sessions get those sessions for free because you just love them so much. Or how many clients call you up and ask you if you would let them come over and watch a movie with you, no money exchanging hands, but he will bring the pizza, and you let them?
I agree that there are some ladies who do enjoy what they do as a provider and the money they get is just a bonus. But you do have to admit, most providers in it for the money only and let the client know that through their action or non action BCD.

I never go by what a provider puts in her ad or what she says on a thread talking about how great she is because those are words. Actions speak louder than words. And since your brought it up, how many clients that you see for sessions get those sessions for free because you just love them so much. Or how many clients call you up and ask you if you would let them come over and watch a movie with you, no money exchanging hands, but he will bring the pizza, and you let them? Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote
He still payed for the pizza. Bro something you gotta understand. Nothing in life is free, everything has a price. Can be Blood, sweat, tears, anything. Just because you aint paying money doesn't always mean its free.

A more reasonable argument would be if the escort genuinely likes you, she'll give you a very generous discount.
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He still payed for the pizza. Bro something you gotta understand. Nothing in life is free, everything has a price. Can be Blood, sweat, tears, anything. Just because you aint paying money doesn't always mean its free.

A more reasonable argument would be if the escort genuinely likes you, she'll give you a very generous discount. Originally Posted by Masalic
why do you hijack your own thread?

This is about if ladies get into their work they get paid for. But since you brought it up, I would rather spend $25 for a pizza than $300+ to get disappointed by a provider who is a dead fuck. And I do not know what providers you see since you do not have any reviews, yet you WK for providers. But, I bet none give very generous discounts not even if you WK for them. They may grandfather your rates if you have been seeing her regularly for years while she raised her rates for new clients to her.

I currently have some ladies I see regularly that do enjoy what they do or are damn good fakers , hence why I continue to see them. But I have also seen more than my share of providers who seemingly just go through the motions, are not there mentally, and make me feel as if I would have been better of looking at porn for free on the internet. Now, If a guy has the temerity to post intel/share his experience about a negative experience, then he is the asshole.
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  • 11-04-2023, 09:48 PM
Hey don't lump me in with these guys, i agree with you. Originally Posted by Masalic
Take the $ away and we'll see how strong this connection is, things are what they are. Nothing wrong with it, the lying pretending is what's really wrong
why do you hijack your own thread?

This is about if ladies get into their work they get paid for. But since you brought it up, I would rather spend $25 for a pizza than $300+ to get disappointed by a provider who is a dead fuck. And I do not know what providers you see since you do not have any reviews, yet you WK for providers. But, I bet none give very generous discounts not even if you WK for them. They may grandfather your rates if you have been seeing her regularly for years while she raised her rates for new clients to her.

I currently have some ladies I see regularly that do enjoy what they do or are damn good fakers , hence why I continue to see them. But I have also seen more than my share of providers who seemingly just go through the motions, are not there mentally, and make me feel as if I would have been better of looking at porn for free on the internet. Now, If a guy has the temerity to post intel/share his experience about a negative experience, then he is the asshole. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote
Its closer to me putting myself in their shoes and asking myself what I would do if i was a provider.
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Its closer to me putting myself in their shoes and asking myself what I would do if i was a provider. Originally Posted by Masalic
Fantastic! Because you have decided to put out the "what would I do if I was a provider" vibe, you probably have many providers sending you messages that they would like to see you for a session. Hopefully, she will enjoy what she does. But either way, I am looking forward to your very first review on this site and you telling everyone about the deep discount you received after putting yourself in her shoes.
Fantastic! Because you have decided to put out the "what would I do if I was a provider" vibe, you probably have many providers sending you messages that they would like to see you for a session. Hopefully, she will enjoy what she does. But either way, I am looking forward to your very first review on this site and you telling everyone about the deep discount you received after putting yourself in her shoes. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote
Give me till next year, it's too damn cold.
(Jesus is your average client always this hostile?)
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....and people say I'M cynical. Originally Posted by Masalic
You are not cynical. You just analyze this shit WAY too much. Go get your rocks off at an AMP and then find a newbie friendly provider and quit worrying about this so much. If you are too afraid of the possible risks then just deal with Rosie and move on. As I've said before, you are so obviously not meant to be in the hobby.
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Give me till next year, it's too damn cold.
(Jesus is your average client always this hostile?) Originally Posted by Masalic

I'm sorry but you are an idiot.
I'm sorry but you are an idiot. Originally Posted by CryptKicker
You wouldn't be the first to call me that.
Take the $ away and we'll see how strong this connection is, things are what they are. Nothing wrong with it, the lying pretending is what's really wrong Originally Posted by BLM69
Yeah but that applies to all jobs. Rarely will someone do a job for free. Which is why I enjoy this as a fantasy, an escape from life. I don’t pretend this is anything other than that. Some guys get really hung up here if a girl pretends or not.
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  • 11-05-2023, 01:42 PM
Yeah but that applies to all jobs. Rarely will someone do a job for free. Which is why I enjoy this as a fantasy, an escape from life. I don’t pretend this is anything other than that. Some guys get really hung up here if a girl pretends or not. Originally Posted by SomeRandomGuy88
I prefer honesty, I've had a few pretend moaning and I'm thinking WTF is wrong with this one, it must be hard to guess what the other person wants
I prefer honesty, I've had a few pretend moaning and I'm thinking WTF is wrong with this one, it must be hard to guess what the other person wants Originally Posted by BLM69
Honestly I'd just tell her up front "I'm not here for some cheezy ass GFE, I just wanna have some fun"
I prefer that too so I say that up front. Some guys need the fake moans and pretending he has a massive cock.