how did you get into the hobby?

I started the hobby 13 years ago. I was bored at work & just skimming the yellow pages & found the escort service section. I remember vividly calling the first escort service that was in the yellow pages & asking what type of services they provide. The female operator told me that me & the girl both get naked and have a good time. That's all it took for me the set-up my first appointment with a provider. The business has really changed since the late 90s. It much better going on the internet & seeing for yourself what type of girl you getting then relying on the operator from a escort agency.

It was 1989, me and 4 of my buddies traveled to Birmingham to take a test for a state job, one of the guys said "hey lets call a hooker" I never knew this world existed before then. I was lucky enough to marry a sex hater, so for me this hobby has allowed my children to grow up with the same parents that they started with....

A real life learning process; affairs, sugar daddy, strippers and then I finally discovered the hourly life.

If I could start over again I would rent everything and own nothing. Originally Posted by catnipdipper

My wife started going through menopause at the age of 36 and we went from having sex 4-5 times a week to once a month. I love my kids and didn't want a divorce because of them, but needed affection. I started in July 2009 trying to have an affair after being faithful for 11 years. Then tried to be a Sugar Daddy to a 23-year-old. Realized that was a bad idea too. I then decided to take Charlie Sheen's advice- “I don’t pay escorts to have sex with me. I pay them to leave when I'm done.” Now I respect all the ladies I see, but the beauty of this whole situation is that you get to have fun and see the best side of someone for a couple of hours, then you leave. It's over. No phone calls the next day with any promises, saying I love you or whatever. This hobby is so much fun and I think that's why I have never felt guilty about doing this.

I can sympathize, but you would be excoriated just like John Edwards was. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

You are absolutely correct

Had a wife who thought having sex was a once a month or less thing.
So after having 2 girlfriends and one having a child. I decided there had to be a better way. I saw something on the new's about Creigslist. After going for a month and seeing no one except Rosie Palmer and the 5 finger sisters. I said it's worth a look. Found someone who caught my interest. I was only seeing 1 provider than she fell off the radar and had to find a new providers. I have found out that there are all kind of great providers out there.

Let's just say I struck out a lot with the girls I wanted to date. Seeing a provider ensured 2 things. 1) Sex 2) Sex with an attractive lady. I lost my virginity to a provider.

Same as that other fella. Which one? Pick one...

Let's just say I struck out a lot with the girls I wanted to date. Seeing a provider ensured 2 things. 1) Sex 2) Sex with an attractive lady. I lost my virginity to a provider. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

I like this hobby because I get to have "dates" with all the ladies who ladies who I was afraid to ask out in high school or college, and I don't have to worry about being turned down, LOL!

I like this hobby because I get to have "dates" with all the ladies who ladies who I was afraid to ask out in high school or college, and I don't have to worry about being turned down, LOL! Originally Posted by pipefitter73

Just don't ask London...she turns down a lot.

I started to hobby when traveling extensively for business for many years. But, the real reason is that, "i got sucked into it!"

I was traveling a lot for my job. When I would get home from a trip, instead of my wife being glad I was home, she was mad that I had been gone. As a result, there was no sex. Trying to talk it out didn't change things. She just said she couldn't help the way she felt. She didn't want me to take a lesser paying job that kept me home, because she liked the money we got. We had great sex early in the marriage, but after we had children sex it seemed to come to a halt. I found out years later that she had been sexually abused as a child, and it seems her past came back to haunt her. She was not interested in sex, and it had a lot of negative impact on other aspects of our relationship. She was unwilling to get professional help, and unwilling to talk about it with me. All I know is that it was one of her grandfathers that molested her. Don't know when, how often, how long it went on, etc. She won't talk. She has a good heart, but is messed up emotionally.

After many years of sex 3 or 4 times a year I found myself in a very nice hotel in a big city on the East Coast, lonely and depressed. I found a listing of escorts in the back of a local free paper, called one of them, and she came over. From my perspective today, it was all pretty mechanical, but it was by far the best sex I had in years. My mood lifted and things were better for me. Discovery of review sites on the internet has resulted in much better experiences. The result of all of this is that I have been able to stay in the marriage, and the kids all got through school with the same parents. I'm still with my wife, and she's still messed up emotionally. I have an outlet that works for me.

Just don't ask London...she turns down a lot. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

She's always either watching TV or on this site. Too busy to see anyone

Let's just say I struck out a lot with the girls I wanted to date. Seeing a provider ensured 2 things. 1) Sex 2) Sex with an attractive lady. I lost my virginity to a provider. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

Same thing with me.

I first got into hobbying back in 2007. After 4 years of social awkwardness in high school, I felt like it was time to finally have some fun. A few weeks before my first semester of college began I ended up calling a girl whose number was in the back of a local magazine. All I ended up getting from her was a very mechanical CBJ. However, at the time I thought it was the best thing ever.

I ended up having 2 more experiences with providers that year. One was with two providers at the same time but it turned out they were only offering manual release (Imagine my disappointment). The final experience that year happened a week before Christmas and I ended up getting 3 BBBJTCNQBS in a row from a pretty faced BBW provider with an awesome rack who looked a lot like Nadine Jansen. I suppose I could've had the option for full service, but admittedly at the time I was still nervous about "going all the way".

Two and a half years pass before I end up going to another provider (I was too preoccupied with school and other things happening in my life to think about sex). In July of this year, I get the job of housesitting for my Dad and Stepmom while they travel to Texas. A little peeved by the fact that I got left out of the family vacation, I decide to go all "Risky Business" and I end up calling up a provider from Backpage named "Bunny". By the time my Dad and Stepmom are on the plane, I'm losing my virginity to Bunny through Missionary. At the start of my senior year, I end up contacting Bunny a few more times (Other than K9 one time, we pretty much stuck to missionary during sessions). However, this past Wednesday, I had a session with my second full service provider, a cutie by the name of Jen, and did CG for the first time.

Bachelor party. Host hired a provider. Some guy was so drunk he put a $100 bill on the table and walked away forgetting about it. I grabbed it and gave it to her for a BBBJ. A few years later I started looking for escorts on the internetz and the rest has been beautiful history.

a voracious digestion of belle du jour's blog led to days of fascination, tinkering with th idea, and eventually taking the plunge. i'm a student, who doesn't want to return to a part-time office job & juggle school simultaneously.