initiating and msog

So I guess I'll stop gumming up the works with my alternative perspective, since it seems I'm in the minority and I don't want to come across as argumentative. Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport

If your approach to initiating round two is truly your own preference, it shouldn't be argued with...

However, if - as you suggested in your initial post on this thread - you adjusted your approach out of concern for that cat you mentioned who felt inadequate and awkward....then that bedwetter can kiss my ass. He might have messed it up for a whole bunch of your clients who cuddle you in order to eat up the rest of the time while hoping and praying you will grab some dick and growl.

Of course I've never been where you have, but I have - more than I like - been one of those poor mopes sprawled and hoping. And hinting. And hoping some more...and then DING, YO TIME IS UP.

Just one john's opinion, that's all.

For a true gfe experience for me is to find a chick that initiates things. And again on the second round.
How many of you ladies can HONESTLY say that you do this?

We don't want to feel like we're pawing at you constantly, more like you want us rather than that envelope we leave behind. Originally Posted by Out_of_Bounds

16 hours into this thread and it would appear the count stands at:
1 - Initiates
2 - Initiate? What is initiate?

Maybe all the other ladies are thinking about this and still pondering.
Or just do not wish to offer their opinion.

I actuly like women who initiate and take charge somewhat. I like that aggressiveness. As far as MSOG is concerned, I have rarely partaken. It's just difficult for me. Now I dont mind a provider trying for it but its rare. If a lady can get me to go a second round, she's a bad ass chick. Hmmm, maybe I need to make that a challenge. Originally Posted by IceCreamMan

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I don't know, but I would assume most guys just got up and leave if he is all satisfied. We do that even with our wives and girlfriends instead of lying there and listen to their feelings. So if the guy is still hanging around you, that's a sign that means he wants to go more round. In that case, it would definitely help if the lady picks up the sign and initiates. It is a turn-on for most guys. Originally Posted by futile

MOST is the key word and there are those who feel rushed or sometimes embarrased because they cant get there little friend to wake back up... Not everyone is the same... Not all guys who still hang around want another round some just like to converse...

Damn,
Embarrassment, hurt feelings, snuggling?

This still is a hooker board, isn't it?

Wakeup, where can I get a deal on a Tempurpedic?

You'd be wrong. Even after we're done and they have no intention or interest in further sexual activity, most of my clients will lounge around and talk and snuggle for as long as I'll let them. Hardly anyone ever leaves early, even if he was an eager beaver and finished in the first 20 minutes. He paid for my time, and he wants to bask in the company of a sweet, lovely woman and forget about anything outside of that for as long as possible.

But again, maybe I just appeal to a different type. If all they wanted was a romp, they could get that for much cheaper and easier screening.

So I guess I'll stop gumming up the works with my alternative perspective, since it seems I'm in the minority and I don't want to come across as argumentative. Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport

Bullseye CD.

Geeez why not just let a chick know prior to meeting you are really wanting msog. Works well for me. Hell I used to include it in my signature, be surprised how well that worked lol. Fuck my little partner is worn out these days but I can stil make it happen

I think you may be mistaking the fact that many of us are perceptive, with the idea that we do not initiate things at all. Petting, playing, flirting, etc, happens throughout the session, not just before. If I see that the petting and etc is bringing on some excitement, I take action. Sometimes he will say it may not happen, but I think we can always have fun trying. I never push for it or make the person feel inadequate, but once the first time is over, the session is by far over.

For second round, hmmm….I like to leave it to the guy…especially for 1 hour date. I don't want him to feel 'pressured' to perform again. What if the client has a hard time finishing and time is running out. And I will be so tired to do the impossible task (LOL) and he will get tired/possibly embarrassed cause he can't get there. I'd rather leave it up to the client. Whatever makes him happy. But for me….most things in life are about quality, not quantity.

Every one of my orgasms is quality dear.

Wakeup, where can I get a deal on a Tempurpedic? Originally Posted by boardman

Mattress Mack dude...the bed alone costs enough to qualify you for one of his contests...

I have yet to find a provider who can truly satisfy me. I can easily pop 4 times before needing any recovery time and my first pop happens way too fast. I chalk it up to the anticipation factor. I'm still waiting to find a provider who will let me see how many pops I can get in 1 hour. Kind of like a test for me.

Men are VERY fragile about their ability to perform or recover. Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport

Those delicate male egos should be crushed and stepped on with work boots. I, on the other hand, know that my performance is subpar and accept the fact that I am a lousy lay.

Damn,
Embarrassment, hurt feelings, snuggling?

This still is a hooker board, isn't it?

Wakeup, where can I get a deal on a Tempurpedic? Originally Posted by boardman

There are no deals on Tempurpedics. The dealers rarely budge from the List Price. The movement I have seen was a $300 discount at a boat show, the bed still would have been over $3K plus ttl.

This is big problem for most providers, even when you state your desires clearly upfront. If the guy doesn't have ED issues, still has half a session and doesn't come again, it's the providers fault. I've lost count of the number of providers with top notch BBBJ/HJ skills who all the sudden act like they've never seen a dick when it comes time for the second round.

On the first shot, unless you do something to distract us, we're going to come even if it's basically using your body to masturbate with. It's the second that we actually need you all for. Little 160/hr Lexi who was at PA put to shame every 250-300/hr provider I've been with when it comes to MSOG. She would get this sultry constant smile, really ramp up the dirty talk, and go at you while saying how much she needed you to please and fuck her. This is where the "P" in IOP comes from.

Any other excuse for a provider not to try and entice a second round when there is adequate time is nothing more than complete laziness. A lot of the 250-400 crowd get all snobby about the agency/amp ladies, but the reality is most of them solidly out do you all on service. Do you think showing us photos of your kids or telling us about your weekend is what we mean by passion?

Stop trying to blame the guy by saying you might hurt our egos. You think most of us are delicate little flowers? Have you ever wondered what it takes ego wise to get naked in front of a girl 25 years younger and 100lb+ lighter than you? Most of you could care less for our ego, its about getting the most money for the least effort. Be honest and call a spade a spade. You don't want to include MSOG fine, just include a No MSOG cheaper rate and all's good. Just be honest and upfront about it.

The deals normally include "free" stuff included in the price. I got two extra Tempurpedic king size pillows, two extra regular king pillows, and a choice of comforter sets.

For $4,200, it's been the best investment I've ever made...all that "free" MSOG...