Overnights/Weekends

hmmm those scenarios sound alot like Match.com.... Originally Posted by Dragon7769

Now that I think about it... you're right! Match.com isn't pay for play though. hehehe

My first weekend with a provider was out of town for a little R & R. We both went to San Antonio together. We had a good time. She was a younger black lady who I got to know through emails and phone calls. She gave me a good rate and we enjoyed the weekend. We looked and acted like gf/bf.

I have done overnights at reasonable rates. The ladies I've done that with have enjoyed themselves, as have I.

So you really do not have to know the person to have a great time. YOu have to find the right girl. A good provider should make you feel like a long lost lover always! This ain't match.com guys. It's just a better feeling when you already know the person! Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Now that I think about it... you're right! Match.com isn't pay for play though. hehehe Originally Posted by Naomi4u

How do I find the right girl?? Match.com?? or ECCIE??

*sigh* I thought you found her already, Ed?
I'm your ECCIE wife remember????

*sigh* I thought you found her already, Ed?
I'm your ECCIE wife remember???? Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Can't wait till we get to honeymoon!!!!

This lady gets it lol.


I agree with everything you said except the "like" part. I think the like part you speak of is purely subjective and dependent on factors that nost wouldn't speak for on board. I'm sure ladies for even the most hideous of clients who lack a good look can mask their disgusts for the greater good.

I'm sure ladies would like to see guys first to see if he's safe, sane, penis size (for some ladies I'm sure) demeanor,
Etc. I could understand the like. Of course if you tell a past client you like him....he will use that to boost his ego for more time. But I'm thinking your using like moreso as a way to gauge your comfortability by a number of hidden factors.

Everything else you typed I agree on. But for me booking two hours or less, is vastly different from what ill do on an overnight. In a two hour session I may be more hands on and she may be more active. it doesn't really cater to the type sessions I seek and really doesn't give her any indication (performance wise) what to expect. If 1 hour and thirty minutes of a 2 hour session was spent bcd, she might assume I would be too hands on.....when overnights require somewhat of a slower transition.

I guess I'm in the minority and take that as a clue that maybe the lady has doubt that she could accommodate overnights. But to each his or her own. Gotta respect it either way. Originally Posted by gimme_that

I just meant like as in general.. not "like" you. Im sure you've seen a lady you liked in general but didn't like enough to do the overnight..



Sorry for any of you men that only get one round for an overnight.. Ive done an overnight and a 3 day and we did it quiet a bit... Even went to a swingers club. lol We didnt switch but did it in front of all. lol

I also wouldn't assume if you were hands on in an hour session you will be all night.. Its only an hour so it should be hands on. Even if you were hands on during an overnight Id tell ya to chill a bit. lol If you were out of control well..

And like Naomi said with the emailing to get to know you, Id actually be open to that option for extended visiting.

. . . Ive done an overnight and a 3 day and we did it quiet a bit... Even went to a swingers club. lol We didnt switch but did it in front of all. lol

I also wouldn't assume if you were hands on in an hour session you will be all night.. Its only an hour so it should be hands on. Even if you were hands on during an overnight Id tell ya to chill a bit. lol If you were out of control well..

And like Naomi said with the emailing to get to know you, Id actually be open to that option for extended visiting. Originally Posted by LynnPL

Mmmm, sounds very enjoyable. I would enjoy extended time with you. Extended time is for both people to enjoy the company as well as the things that are done.

It does go back to being comfortable with her and vice versa to make it all happen. Communication and expectations is the key to any date.

On my overnights, I gave the provider a general idea of my expectations for play time beforehand and she gave me her expectations so we were fairly before the date happened. We played for a couple of hours, had dinner and a movie, played for a few hours, got some rest, some morning play, and breakfast. Generally I do opt for 2-4 hour dates, but this was a nice change of pace and the playtime definitely exceeded that of a 4 hour date without sacrificing time for other activities and sleep.

My problem is after a 2hr or 4hr Dinner Date, I'm usually hornyer the next morning after the initial encounter with a lady. That's one of reasons for possibly doing a overnight because I think it would be better the next morning.

Informative thread.

Thanks :-)

Yep I agree dude. Your missing out on the morning wood factor man. That's power right there. Its a nice way to start the next day too.