Where are the BFE gentlemen?

Just thought I would ask, I see acouple of the gentlemen have it in their signatures. Yes I know hobbyist are the ones who pay, and all the good stuff. I see the guys like GFE, so gentlemen are you BFE? Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

Sure and I don't charge extra for outcalls.

Slow is way more fun! Sipping wine, flirting, a subtle crossing of the legs to reveal the top of a pair of thigh-highs, a subtle brush of a hand to the body, a provacative toast, foreplay is an art, which leads to romanve...which is also an art.
Cheers!

Given my particular bent, i'm always appreciative that a lovely woman would go out of her way to see me. So i try to show some respect and treat her in a way that expresses how i value the gift of her time, beyond the usual donation. I'm not so much paying a provider for her services as i am gaining the opportunity to spend some quality time with an interesting woman. It has been my experience that kindness and consideration flavor a relationship in ways that help it last and make it more rewarding for both parties. And flowers along with conversation hardly ever hurt, although sometimes it does get me gagged, tied tighter, and whipped longer.

italian1,
You're all mine, buddy......come to momma!

Slow is way more fun! Sipping wine, flirting, a subtle crossing of the legs to reveal the top of a pair of thigh-highs, a subtle brush of a hand to the body, a provacative toast, foreplay is an art, which leads to romanve...which is also an art.
Cheers! Originally Posted by italian1

Trooper Hawk if it makes you feel better, you misunderstood what i was saying in replying to your response like a true BFE.......guess that official makes you one ......giggle! you are free to say whatever you want. I want to hear from the non BFE gents to


Reese I love the BFE's. It does have its benefits........being one! Im sure they are not telling........lol

Lana...I bet we could come up with a few fun toasts of our own!!!
Cheers!

The real measure of a GFE or BFE is repeatability, would you want to meet again and do it all over?

If the answer is yes then a good time was had and it was more than just a paid transaction.

This is actually pretty interesting. We all know what guys consider GFE, but what do you ladies consider a BFE? If I rip one in the sheets with you and keep you under, would that be considered a BFE? KIDDING! Originally Posted by Jasser

Eeeeeeeeeuw. Uh Uhh!!!

~Kelly TNT

I like to think I provide a BFE experience for the ladies. Just ask TNT Kelly, Sam Malone, Italian Princess and XO Sadie to name a few. The days of hard core 1, 2, or 3 hour olympic style sex are long gone for me. Instead my BFE Experiences are as follows. First I like having doubles, sorry thats just me.

I invite two ladies over for an extended date, usually 3 hours. I enjoy entertaining in my home and most people consider me to be a very good cook. I always ask that the ladies also dress casually and comfort is very important to me. The ladies come in, have a seat and watch me in the kitchen. A few glasses of wine, or drinks, some stimulating conversation and music. I also tell the ladies that they must like dogs as my two border collies are very social well behaved animals and will be sitting waiting for a treat or a pat on the head. The evening progresses, a bit of good food, more drinks, another bottle of wine and more music. I find that by enjoying an evening in this manner, the ladies are very relaxed, and the BCD activity occurs naturally and is usually quite amazing. After BCD, a bit more food, more wine and drinks and sometimes a second round of BCD. By the time the three hours is over, both ladies are I are laughing, smiling and quite content that the evening was well spent and it was not just another appointment, but instead a true GFE/BFE evening.

Sure and I don't charge extra for outcalls. Originally Posted by npita

I want my money back!

Thanks for the responses,

Seriously, those guys who are BFE come over, jump in the shower with me, kiss, cuddle, talk about things, hump, and cuddle some more. Those men are far and few in between.

BFE is greatly appreciated, though I am aware it is your fantasy, but providers remember those who didn't make us feel like a piece of meat.

Oh some of us ladies really appreciate when guys send thank you notes in pm, it makes us feel really special well at least i do. Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

Yup, sounds like I fit the definition. Just not a wham, bam, thank you, ma'am kind of guy. I like to savor the time with the ladies. Makes for a better connection.

Lol ......that is good to know.

When ladies encourage the BFE, it's much easier to move the moment(s) to be BFE.

Usually find the better BFE is with regulars and sugarbabes.

I love encouragement......mixed with a highly rated Merlot or a ladies favorite whatever.