Those NASTY mommy tummies

  • anita
  • 07-24-2015, 08:36 PM
Even if you didn't have a mommy tummy, some guys would still find something to criticize. You are a beautiful woman, be confident and the rest will not matter anymore.
I am very quick to apologize for my tummy.
Originally Posted by SpiceInTucson
Never had children. However I have a 'new' tummy scar that I have not made peace with
I've declined a few appts because I'm insecure about it.
It was either the tummy scar or my life..... heh
Even if you didn't have a mommy tummy, some guys would still find something to criticize. You are a beautiful woman, be confident and the rest will not matter anymore. Originally Posted by anita
So true!
Hey guys, heres a weird subject I would love your tidbit on.

I am a pretty little lady, I have the most amazing attitude, pretty decent body, very HWP and very GFE.and sometimes even PSE. My problem is the minute I take off my top, I am very quick to apologize for my mommy tummy.

What are your honest thoughts on it? I wish I could get a tummy tuck, but I want to hear from all you gents on the infamous mommy tummies. Originally Posted by SpiceInTucson
No apologies. The most amazing lover I've ever had has a mommy tummy and it does nothing to take away from how amazing she is. I get that it's viewed by some as a flaw, but I've got flaws as well. If u bring it in the bedroom and we have chemistry, what does it matter?
JennerJammer's Avatar
Lol,
Banned for writing her own review.

As far as mommy tummy goes I wont see anyone with one.

Why would I when there are lots out there who don't have one. Originally Posted by Gotyour6
There was so much more to that review than what meets the eye........

One day I'll get a tummy tuck and breast lift and look like I'm 25 again =) Originally Posted by SpiceInTucson
I actually agree with GY6 and the others who say it doesn't matter, neither is wrong.

I think the key point is what you chose to focus on, not the five dudes that praised you as you arebut the one who said you weren't what he wanted.

Be careful, there are frames of mind that are unbreakable. Like the person who loses 50 lbs but still sees a fatty in the mirror because they trained theirself to see such. Changes won't work if your mind isn't ready to accept yourself either way. Courage, serenity, wisdom.

You'll never be 25 again. Love it.
You have to be comfortable within your own body. I was going through a similar issue with my mommy tummy. I started asking myself what do i love about me, and the good out weighed the bad. I learned to embrass my curves, and i'm happier and smile more than before. I learned to let go things you can't control. So if one day i decide i'm tired of looking at my mommy tummy with the stretch marks, then i'll get rid of it!
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As far as mommy tummy goes I wont see anyone with one.

Why would I when there are lots out there who don't have one. Originally Posted by Gotyour6
I agree
wellendowed1911's Avatar
I have seen ladies who had them and ladies who don't- I am more concerned about the service she provides. One thing that the OP didn't mention nor anyone else is- why should the ladies with mommy tummy feel insecure or ashamed and hobbyist why should we make them feel insecure- let's be honest the average hobbyist isn't some 6 feet stud, with a 6 pack abs and the looks of some major movie star.
The hobbyist have their imperfections so what's the point?
I have seen ladies who had them and ladies who don't- I am more concerned about the service she provides. One thing that the OP didn't mention nor anyone else is- why should the ladies with mommy tummy feel insecure or ashamed and hobbyist why should we make them feel insecure- let's be honest the average hobbyist isn't some 6 feet stud, with a 6 pack abs and the looks of some major movie star.
The hobbyist have their imperfections so what's the point? Originally Posted by wellendowed1911
Yep!!!!
Part of a mature woman's body; I like.
  • D.G.
  • 07-29-2015, 12:16 PM
Depends on how bad .
Hey guys, heres a weird subject I would love your tidbit on.

I am a pretty little lady, I have the most amazing attitude, pretty decent body, very HWP and very GFE.and sometimes even PSE. My problem is the minute I take off my top, I am very quick to apologize for my mommy tummy.

What are your honest thoughts on it? I wish I could get a tummy tuck, but I want to hear from all you gents on the infamous mommy tummies. Originally Posted by SpiceInTucson
Don't get a tummy tuck. Get rid of it the healthy way by going to the gym and eating right. I'm sure you can get a fitness instructor to help you out and there's always an app you can download that will help with meals as well��.
in life you just learn to own your body.
i personally suggest to not "hide" things. i blur my tattoos, but i write on my website that i have tattoos..
in the end, there is a market for everyone. in this business, repeat business is what keeps you going. find your keepers and let the others do their thing.
xo Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie
I understand why you blurr out your tats. I've never been able to understand in some of the reviews that guys write that the girl has some tats but they weren't to distracting. I'd say 85% of us have some ink.
Ok im 54 and im starting to notice that its not the model perfect bods that turn me on anymore, its the little imperfections that come with age and experience tat seem to do it. A mommy tummy or slightly flat boobs grab my attention a little more nowdays
Alexxxiana Azul's Avatar
hey, be proud of those battlemarks . you brought life onto this planet you don't need to ashamed that your body isn't like some one who hasn't been blessed to experience what you have