How Many Reasons are There to Not Write A Review?

FindumFuccemFleem's Avatar
-Some guys pay for PA so they think writing reviews is not necessary
-Some are just straight up leeches
pmdelites's Avatar
there are as many reasons for not writing reviews as there are clients seeing providers.

cant believe you left two out - some of us clients are lazy asses. some of us clients are too busy getting sucked and/or fucked. some of us clients are both :^}

others - cos he doesnt want others to know how deliteful or crappy she is (former - selfish; latter - he wants others to experience thru what he did ;^)
pyramider's Avatar
This^^, I was teasing you about this, Chung.

I am fortunate to have business from this board
despite having no recent reviews.

I love men, I really do. Especially
with a nice glass of chianti. Originally Posted by cinderbella
Chianti goes well with taint.
there are as many reasons for not writing reviews as there are clients seeing providers.

cant believe you left two out - some of us clients are lazy asses. some of us clients are too busy getting sucked and/or fucked. some of us clients are both :^}

others - cos he doesnt want others to know how deliteful or crappy she is (former - selfish; latter - he wants others to experience thru what he did ;^) Originally Posted by pmdelites
Well said and very accurate.
Chung Tran's Avatar
This^^, I was teasing you about this, Chung. Originally Posted by cinderbella
Ha! got it.. one good tease deserves another!

you basically just answered your own question. There are a lot of guys on eccie that give ladies shit for seeing an AA client.
So they put up the charade, advertise no AA but still see AA behind the scenes. Originally Posted by txboi817
I don't think my question is answered.. I realize that is what happens, BUT.. the "why" has not been put to rest.

if fear of harassment and reduced bookings is a concern, why not nix the "no AA" policy (thus attracting more AA guys, who she will see anyway), and ask each guy she sees to not write a review? she is having to ask that anyway.

perhaps if she has a "no AA" policy, only the most-ardent AA guys will, um, penetrate the barrier, and will thus be more likely to adhere to the "no review, please" directive?
If you're new and you write your first review and it is good - every other user will jump in saying it is fake.
Guest113018-1's Avatar
I have my own reason for not writing reviews. I have written plenty of reviews, just none lately because of a lack of privacy at home. My daughter had a baby in July and her and her jobless baby daddy have been at myhouse 24/7 since then, do no way to spend an hour on the computer writing reviews. Only a temporary situation as both have just recently went back to work so some new reviews should be forthcoming.
I don't think my question is answered.. I realize that is what happens, BUT.. the "why" has not been put to rest.

if fear of harassment and reduced bookings is a concern, why not nix the "no AA" policy (thus attracting more AA guys, who she will see anyway), and ask each guy she sees to not write a review? she is having to ask that anyway.

perhaps if she has a "no AA" policy, only the most-ardent AA guys will, um, penetrate the barrier, and will thus be more likely to adhere to the "no review, please" directive? Originally Posted by Chung Tran
I see your point. I'm not sure if there is a correct answer. Maybe selectivity??? I used to just dismiss ladies when I saw no AA but then i just said fuck it and started asking. I guess if I was some random newbie with very little reviews I'd immediately get dismissed but having a some credibility and others who can vouch for me helps a lot. So maybe its a perception thing, a pimp thing, or maybe they just aren't attracted to AA men at all. I'll get off that subject and back on topic though--there are enough threads on this topic out there.

I for one will write a review on any newbie, any No review, anyone I have seen for the first time, and any one who hasn't had a review in a long amount of time--even if its a mini review.

I have had one lady tell me she wasn't trying to get super busy and just wanted to keep her client list short.
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I for one will write a review on any newbie, any No review, anyone I have seen for the first time, and any one who hasn't had a review in a long amount of time--even if its a mini review.
Originally Posted by txboi817
Hell, it begs the question, how many reviews have you NOT written? you're already one of the top 10 ECCIE reviewers nationwide (I'm guessing, without peeking at the stats)!

lots of answers so far, at least 20 different reasons.. other than "too lazy", all the responses seem genuine.

has anyone promised to write a review, but did not, because his Provider did not perform the services he expected? no need for names or detail, if you don't want to post that.. just curious about the answer.
berkleigh's Avatar
I HAD a "No Review Policy" for the longest.
Mainly because I prefer Quality over Quantity and I don't feel the need to be reviewed EVERY.SINGLE.TIME.

I've also made it clear that another reason I enforced it was due to an arrangement I've had for several years or because of a hobbyist I was personally involved with (dating).
It's no secret that some of us engage in relationships outside the hobby so my take on it was to keep the BCD of what I do with my clientele from being publicly reviewed.

The less drama the better for all parties.

IMHO...

Hell, it begs the question, how many reviews have you NOT written? you're already one of the top 10 ECCIE reviewers nationwide (I'm guessing, without peeking at the stats)!

lots of answers so far, at least 20 different reasons.. other than "too lazy", all the responses seem genuine.

has anyone promised to write a review, but did not, because his Provider did not perform the services he expected? no need for names or detail, if you don't want to post that.. just curious about the answer. Originally Posted by Chung Tran
Top 10? no probably top 25 though. But if I reviewed all the multiple visits and reviewed them ever single time I saw them, I think I'd be in the top 10. Just browsing through my memory bank I would guess about 20 ladies I have never reviewed based mainly on the main reason I listed earlier.

Berkleigh is right too...A few ladies I have seen had sugar daddy's or "boyfriends" they met on eccie and they didn't want a review because it would have affected their agreement.

I also know for a fact that there are several guys on this board who go out of their way to tell ladies not to see specific guys on here. I've had false info said about me and it has gotten back to me. I know who he is too and I think he'd be shocked if he knew I was seeing his ATF. But of course I have never reviewed her ;-)

I guess all I'm trying to say is that this is a business. Despite the efforts people take to claim "ownership" over a lady at the end of the day we are all just using each other. Just chill, enjoy the sex and the fun and this will be a happier community.
guest071618-1's Avatar
Average, Below Average = No review

Above Average, really bad = write review
Duthgar1976's Avatar
in all honesty i never did a review because the said provider already had tons of reviews what am i adding? if anyone asks a question about a provider i have seen i can answer it then and there or pm them instead. i try to keep my conquests quiet im an odd man i guess. but i love reading ya'lls just wish i could pay for the ability to read the ROS but all well my credit union dont like out of country purchases lol.
dtymh55's Avatar
One day I may attempt to write a review. I all ways found writing assignments in school to be pain so I guess that is part of my problem.
Rod667's Avatar
Fear of never being able to get a blow job again!!!

Out of the hobby for 10 years, back for less than 1 year. I've seen 4 girls and all would have been NO reviews. If I only have 4 reviews and they're all bad...I'm the old bastard that trashes every girl on the site. Would make it tough to get dates I think.