Engaged Hobbyist - His fiance found out!

Well, you have my 2 cents. I'm so confused as to the fact pattern now. I'll just say I hope everyone is better off.

... and I officially wipe my hands of this thread, heh. Originally Posted by sketchball82

Did I confuse you? Oops! Things explained by me can sometimes turn into a question wrapped in an mystery and rolled into an enigma. But then its been too late and I need some sleep. This thread has been very entertaining!

Why do you think so low and simple? Obviously my conversation here is much more meaningful than fucking for money. And you obviously don't read my posts here, because I did not imply that he was my "BF".

Some of us like the hobby more intimately than others. Each to their own.

Wow, some of the people who post on this board have no tact, nevertheless sympathy and a working brain cell. Originally Posted by AlluringExotic

You outted a dude and you want sympathy.

Am I reading this correct? At your haircut you were asked if you seeing anyone, you claimed yes and gave the info of a client who was paying you and it just so happened to be his fiance? That is fucked on your part. Hopefully I missed something but I don't think so.

Am I reading this correct? At your haircut you were asked if you seeing anyone, you claimed yes and gave the info of a client who was paying you and it just so happened to be his fiance? That is fucked on your part. Hopefully I missed something but I don't think so. Originally Posted by randomuser

It is fucked, and I know. Me and my client had a steady arrangement so I didn't think nothing of it being that I was told by the client that he was a single man. But yet, his fiance had asked me the questions initially. I am a bad liar. lol.

If he was paying your wage then you need to shut the fuck up. You don't say a word about him to anybody. This is a prime example of why A person shouldn't give out personal information.

If he's paying you to fuck he's not your boyfriend. Just like if I'm paying her to fuck she's not my gf. Originally Posted by simpleton

This is exactly what I'm talking about. The inhuman attitude that pervades the culture. I've been married for many years and I can honestly say that with the house the cars and the education, yes, I paid dearly to fuck her. I paid with nearly half of my life in fact.

This attitude is precisely reason why I stopped seeing some many providers and shrank it down to one or two that would reciprocate. I'm not trying to fall in love or anything but sex is much better when I care about the person that I'm with and she cares about me. If I pay for it, so what!? No pretension and when we become friends, all the better. I have a lot of love to go around and I don't need to own the one I love.

To each his own but I sometimes wonder what is wrong with people. Why must the way we go about our business be so singular and simple-minded, treating each other with less worth than we likely deserve. Screw and go, nothing more; I'll pass on that thank you very much.

randomuser you nailed it. But she wanted sympathy.

She outed him and its funny to her.

I bet it happened a little differently.
She was pissed he lied about having a fiance and she called her up and told her(the fiance).
Doesn't really matter how she did it. She outed him.

All I can say is:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YDQVH...eature=related

randomuser you nailed it. But she wanted sympathy.

She outed him and its funny to her.

I bet it happened a little differently.
She was pissed he lied about having a fiance and she called her up and told her(the fiance). Originally Posted by simpleton

Do you think I outed him on purpose? Do you think I even knew that the woman was his fiance? Hell no. If my only intention was to out men that I have seen, then it would be senseless to do what I do.

We have no choice to be discreet, but things happen when the arrangement gets personal and business turns into pleasure. That is my mistake. I assume all faults by believing the lie my "hobbyist" told me in the first place.

Dear Simpleton, you bypassed my lengthy explanations on my situation just to assume that I was being vengeful. I would dare never call a man's wife, fiance, or GF. My reputation would be soured and I do not desire to black mail a man whatsoever.


Please keep posting to validate your ignorance simpleton. Or is it experience? I assume that you had a provider to do you dirty.

This is exactly what I'm talking about. The inhuman attitude that pervades the culture. I've been married for many years and I can honestly say that with the house the cars and the education, yes, I paid dearly to fuck her. I paid with nearly half of my life in fact.

This attitude is precisely reason why I stopped seeing some many providers and shrank it down to one or two that would reciprocate. I'm not trying to fall in love or anything but sex is much better when I care about the person that I'm with and she cares about me. If I pay for it, so what!? No pretension and when we become friends, all the better. I have a lot of love to go around and I don't need to own the one I love.

To each his own but I sometimes wonder what is wrong with people. Why must the way we go about our business be so singular and simple-minded, treating each other with less worth than we likely deserve. Screw and go, nothing more; I'll pass on that thank you very much. Originally Posted by NegroDeSangue

Well said, I agree with this 100%.

This is exactly what I'm talking about. The inhuman attitude that pervades the culture. I've been married for many years and I can honestly say that with the house the cars and the education, yes, I paid dearly to fuck her. I paid with nearly half of my life in fact.

This attitude is precisely reason why I stopped seeing some many providers and shrank it down to one or two that would reciprocate. I'm not trying to fall in love or anything but sex is much better when I care about the person that I'm with and she cares about me. If I pay for it, so what!? No pretension and when we become friends, all the better. I have a lot of love to go around and I don't need to own the one I love.

To each his own but I sometimes wonder what is wrong with people. Why must the way we go about our business be so singular and simple-minded, treating each other with less worth than we likely deserve. Screw and go, nothing more; I'll pass on that thank you very much. Originally Posted by NegroDeSangue

You call it inhumane, I will call it reality. Quit paying those girls and see if you are still getting any booty. That is reality and there is nothing wrong with it but don't mistake it for something else and don't blame someone else when you do.

Do you think I outed him on purpose? Do you think I even knew that the woman was his fiance? Hell no. If my only intention was to out men that I have seen, then it would be senseless to do what I do.

We have no choice to be discreet, but things happen when the arrangement gets personal and business turns into pleasure. That is my mistake. I assume all faults by believing the lie my "hobbyist" told me in the first place.

Dear Simpleton, you bypassed my lengthy explanations on my situation just to assume that I was being vengeful. I would dare never call a man's wife, fiance, or GF. My reputation would be soured and I do not desire to black mail a man whatsoever.


Please keep posting to validate your ignorance simpleton. Or is it experience? I assume that you had a provider to do you dirty. Originally Posted by AlluringExotic

You are saying you have never told a client a lie?

It makes no difference to me if you did it on purpose . It makes no difference to me if he told you he was single. It doean't matter he lied to you. YOU outted him. I understand you were pissed he didn't tell you he had a fiance. You made him pay.

Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned.

You are saying you have never told a client a lie? Originally Posted by randomuser

A lie about what? You find one for me. Good luck.

You can't accuse people of not having working brain cells when you repeatedly call a fiancé a finance. Finance is not the correct word. Originally Posted by TabooTanner

THANK YOU!!! I don't know how many more times I could see this without freaking out on my end. Hooktards

If this story really did happen which I have my doubt. I bet the details are a little bit different. DId this happen in Houston?