Would you rather have a Mistress or just see a provider?

If you chose a single provider she's not available. 90 percent of the time. A mistress. Would be
hum Originally Posted by onedaddy
Not - a mistress has 5 of 28 like all women plus she gets "headaches" too - And worst of all, when the mistress gets pissed she can threaten to go to the wife or worse! No way in Hell would I consider a real mistress that's a one way street to divorce court! Had an SB threaten me, heard of others - not a good choice in my opinion!

If one provider is not available call another. When I want to see someone I may check with 2 or 3 and take the first one that sets a time!
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Wow, that eliminates 95% of women. Originally Posted by Shayla

Shayla is being too generous.
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A mistress is like a sugar baby arrangement and I got a college girl that I have been taking care of for over a year now, what a hand full. She pouts, sulks and having a provider would be better . Everything has it's problems but some people are too arrogant to admit that and it might hurt their ego. A man that is egotistical may throw a mistress out on her azz and not think twice. Same thing goes for a woman that thinks she is all that and treats men and women poorly. Watch how quick he or she gets replaced. If a woman is a mistress or a sugar baby, she must be doing something right and not having to hook.
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Atxdream.....just so you know there is a section for misstress and sugardaddies. By the way a misstress is woman paid for services just on longer basis.
I don't think a housewife would think this way. More than likely they don't know the differences between an escort and a mistress. The stigma of her husband frequenting escorts would be much more embarrassing to her. Originally Posted by Ansley

Actually, I don't think so. The idea that her husband was in love and had emotional attachments with another woman would be a lot more devastating than paid meaningless flings.
Actually, I don't think so. The idea that her husband was in love and had emotional attachments with another woman would be a lot more devastating than paid meaningless flings. Originally Posted by alluringava
I agree if I were married I think I would be much more insulted at the idea of my husband cheating, being emotionally attached and fully supporting one woman verses just paying for a no strings attached provider for a brief moment in time. They both would make me feel some sort of way though.

But i guess what the wifey is thinking is not what this thread is about.
Skylar see my question above...I really am curious to see what everyone says.
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Ladies now wait a minute ...we are not talking about love with another woman..a misstrss is just like a provider..but she only sees one man but he pays for her apt. and expences.

And you say that the wives don't care if their husband is seeing a provider....look at threads when they did find out.
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Actually, I don't think so. The idea that her husband was in love and had emotional attachments with another woman would be a lot more devastating than paid meaningless flings. Originally Posted by alluringava
Ava let me help you with this one! You and I are married.... I buy a classic RED Corvette. I love you but I give it to a hooker I met only once! Would you really feel worse if I gave it to my mistress I have feelings for? Personally if it’s NOT YOU who is getting the car, YOU’RE PISSED!

I got a better one! I'm going to make you cookies. They will taste GREAT! You love cookies! Then I tell you I put a little tiny bit of dog shit in the cookies! I pretty much guarantee you won't keep eating the cookies saying wow I can't even taste it! LOL Thanks SL, at least you didn't put a BIG gigantic turd in there that I might bit into! You’re the best SL!

There is NO scale when it comes to RIGHT & WRONG!




PS: I put powder suger on the cookies!
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What a question. *sigh* really? Ever heard the saying you pay them to leave? Um that's why men prefer escorts. Smh. Originally Posted by ZarahAdams
Variety is the spice of life..
Not - a mistress has 5 of 28 like all women plus she gets "headaches" too - And worst of all, when the mistress gets pissed she can threaten to go to the wife or worse! No way in Hell would I consider a real mistress that's a one way street to divorce court! Had an SB threaten me, heard of others - not a good choice in my opinion!

If one provider is not available call another. When I want to see someone I may check with 2 or 3 and take the first one that sets a time! Originally Posted by Louigi
**Note To Self** Don't accept chocolate Chip Cookies from ------>
Ava let me help you with this one! You and I are married.... I buy a classic RED Corvette. I love you but I give it to a hooker I met only once! Would you really feel worse if I gave it to my mistress I have feelings for? Personally if it’s NOT YOU who is getting the car, YOU’RE PISSED!

I got a better one! I'm going to make you cookies. They will taste GREAT! You love cookies! Then I tell you I put a little tiny bit of dog shit in the cookies! I pretty much guarantee you won't keep eating the cookies saying wow I can't even taste it! LOL Thanks SL, at least you didn't put a BIG gigantic turd in there that I might bit into! You’re the best SL!

There is NO scale when it comes to RIGHT & WRONG!




PS: I put powder suger on the cookies! Originally Posted by Still Looking
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**Note To Self** Don't accept chocolate Chip Cookies from ------> Originally Posted by JasmineCummings
Ever tried a hot dog with powdered sugar? LOL
And nothing powdered... The list is growing LOL
Ever tried a hot dog with powdered sugar? LOL Originally Posted by Still Looking
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And nothing powdered... The list is growing LOL Originally Posted by JasmineCummings
I've got something that will grow! Is growing on the list?