What is 30 minute session to YOU, time wise.

The question is when I dude books a 30 minute session. Is saying Hi, how are you...etc... part of the 30 min session? Taking off clothes, putting on his clothes after. Is that all part of the 30 minutes? If a dude gets there at 7, then he needs to be out by 7:30?

Just wondering others opinions. Originally Posted by bigdik11

No options. 30 minutes sessions are 30 minute sessions.

Need more time, book an hour.

Go to a lawyer and bulls hit for a half hour before getting to business. You're getting charged for every minute.

Only difference here is that these ladies can't send you a bill so you're just stealing their time.

I book hhr appointments because my personality and my dick can't last an hour...

Personally i like hhr for a first meeting because it gives us both a chance to test chemistry without being detrimental to either of us monetarily because of course time is money and it we can part ways amicably. If its a great time. Hr or more next time.

Ive had providers tell me the time starts when i get in the parking lot because at that point they are locked into the appt and cant see anyone else. Needless to say no repeats there.

I once had a provider whip out one of those old mechanical timers as soon as I walked in the door and wound it up to 30 minutes. It was one of those ones that went TICK TICK TICK really loud.

Did a quick meet & greet, stripped down and started activities, all with this loud TICK TICK TICK in the background. After the prelims I got her in MISH and pounded for a solid 20 minutes (I was a lot younger) until the bell went off and 10 seconds later my bell went off. Got up, dressed, and was out the door in less than a minute. Never saw her again but she did message me a few times asking when I was coming back to see her again. Maybe between never and eternity.

~Ze!~, will you shut the hell up! Your body is whatever I need it for. Walk over here and bring me those tits!! And why are your panties still on?!?!?


Naaw, I'm just fucking with you. How are you doing, btw??

For me, 30 minutes is actually about 20-22...25 minutes in an out. If we're pushing against the clock, I do start to feel self conscious a bit. We guys, those of us that give a shit, have an enteral clock, too. I do try to keep a few extra 'sorry for going over' bucks in my pocket just in case.

In that half hour window, I don't feel rushed if the provider is a good visit. We go through all the motions a session. A little chit chat. Start smooching and undressing (this usually triggers some erection action, so not much effort is needed on the ensuing beej). Some head, I may reciprocate if the mood strikes me. We go through a few positions, and then...splash.

I get back to my car. 22-23 minutes...right on schedule. This includes, cleanup, post action chatting while getting dressed, and a kiss out the door.

Ladies, there's a secret to a successful 30-minute session. Those that are good at it already know what it is.

No options. 30 minutes sessions are 30 minute sessions.

Need more time, book an hour.

Go to a lawyer and bulls hit for a half hour before getting to business. You're getting charged for every minute.

Only difference here is that these ladies can't send you a bill so you're just stealing their time. Originally Posted by grean

lawyers dont always charge, they offer free initial consults before taking ur case lol

My thoughts on time
While this is playtime for me, its a business for her. As such:
- a 30 minute session is 29 minutes, 59 seconds
- a 60 minute session is 59 minutes, 59 seconds
- etc, etc


Reasons for a 30 minute session
As been said before, a 30 minute session can be an introductory session to gauge compatibility. If there is no connection, it will be difficult for me to be engaged and achieve cumpletion. If it was a great session, she'll know and I'll be back for a longer session.

When I first started hobbying, I did alot of BnG sessions. I found there was too much variability in the BnG definition:
- Provider is dressed? or undressed?
- Any other activities: kissing, touching, etc to get stimulated? Some say yes, some say no.
- What is the timeframe for the BnG, 15 minutes, 20 minutes, until completion?
- Is there a potential to upgrade the session?
- As such, I don't schedule BnG sessions anymore. If i'm interested in a BnG, I schedule a 30 minute session. More defined, more options. I think of it as a BnG with an option to fuck.

or more ..

Shit, I have way too much fun to only do 30 minutes with these wonderful women. Less than 30 minutes sounds like married sex to me, like I would want to fuck something and get away as fast as possible. Sounds sad to me.
I much prefer 90 minutes to two hours of pleasure with women i actually enjoy being around. So much fun.
Thanks ladies. Originally Posted by micktoz

so neither one of us knows how long it's been
but your right you should be able to judge hhr or hr
being nice goes a long ways ..

I have found that if you are nice, polite, kind, tip, don't haggle, do your homework on the provider so you know what they will and won't do, and just basically use common sense, no one watches a clock unless you grossly overstay your welcome. We all have a sense of what 30 minutes or an hour is. We don't have to stare at the clock every minute. If you make sure the provider is happy to be with you then it's not an issue if you are 5 minutes over putting on your shoes or saying goodbye.
If you are a jerk or haggle or ask a provider do something they aren't comfortable with, they will be counting the seconds until you leave. Originally Posted by haihawaii2000

When I first started hobbying, I could only afford 1/2 hr appointments . When I could afford hour appointments, I never did half hour appointments again. Not enough time for fun. I hate to rush.