I have serious doubts about the length of this marriage if things continue in this manner.
Originally Posted by NordicJag
Years ago we sold a puppy to a couple and come to find out the puppy caused a divorce. Puppies don't cause divorces, the marriage was a mess to begin with and they found their excuse to call it quits using a cute dalmatian puppy as the straw that broke the camel's back. Like NJ, I have serious doubts about the marriage.
This “ discussion “ between them is about control. He is telling her to do something that is her possession and it has nothing to do with outside or inside. In a regular playful marriage she would say, “ well if you want it cleaned so badly…you do it and maybe mommy will give daddy’s pipes a cleaning after”.
But they are already passed that point ( after only 9 months) so she just needs to say, nope not cleaning it but if it’s important to you feel free. And then ( this is key) go silent say no more because the control freak will then want to elevate into an argument.
Originally Posted by michaelrayab
I fully agree, especially the comment about control. Maybe this is 'the' contest to see who wears the pants in the family.
These newlyweds are going to have to figure this issue out amongst themselves, many more things gonna be coming at them. You can’t grow as a person if you don’t work through difficulties. The struggle for control has emerged, they either come together as a couple and work through it or start growing apart and so soon too.
Originally Posted by arañanegra
Yes sir, good stuff. Things will get worse not better. I don't care how good the dick or pussy is, soon enough they will get tired of each others bullshit.