Ladies!!! What are your thoughts on getting a drink with a hobbiest

To all the guys on here I know it’s a coed and it is open to everybody to add a comment but let the ladies speak for themselves!! I’m asking them not you, if you have all the answers great no need to take it up the ass (no point intended) just let the ladies communicate with me/us and maybe just maybe you’ll learn something you thought you already knew. Ladies please excuse the dicks!! Originally Posted by Texas32

The lack of ladies responding speaks volumes of what most of them think of your question.

Wanna drink with a whore? Buy a dancer a drink.

As long as he supplying I'm drinking lol

Wanna drink with a whore? Buy a dancer a drink. Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

Tsk tsk.. not a fair comparison. Back when I was a dancer, I never crossed the "whore" line. Not all dancers play... as obviously evidenced by the number of "No" reviews in the SC Forum.

The lack of ladies responding speaks volumes of what most of them think of your question. Originally Posted by Golden Man

Wrong.....the lack of ladies responding to this and any other thread seeking ladies' opinions on a hobby subject is NOT indicative of the question asked, but rather the loss of business and being ridiculed by the trolls and that by those who have differing opinions of the frequent posters. Both of which are well documented in Eccie history.

This is why mostly all these types of threads before long end up with most of posts being by guys and the thread becoming a sausage fest.

About 60% of my dates are cocktail or lunch/dinner dates. The rest are cocktails and convo at my place.

Lot of truth here. I wish more ladies posted more often.

Makes the board a hell of a lot more interesting and it’s actually a big part of my research process in deciding on someone to reach out to.

Wrong.....the lack of ladies responding to this and any other thread seeking ladies' opinions on a hobby subject is NOT indicative of the question asked, but rather the loss of business and being ridiculed by the trolls and in crowd that is so well documented by those who have differing opinions of the frequent posters.

This is why mostly all these types of threads before long end up with most of posts being by guys and the thread becoming a sausage fest. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

I can buy my own drink & yours if I wanted too...
But to go out with someone I'v never met on off the clock no thanks
, Don't need to wast my time when I can book a hr or longer appt

I do have a dinner rate .
This is OUR income ,
OP Do you work for free ?

My dates are largely not a specific set time, so drinks or dinner are great. When I go out with a guy from match.com, I don't put a specific time on it, so I don't like to do it here either. I find by selecting my dates wisely, it all works out quite well for everyone.

Wrong.....the lack of ladies responding to this and any other thread seeking ladies' opinions on a hobby subject is NOT indicative of the question asked, but rather the loss of business and being ridiculed by the trolls and that by those who have differing opinions of the frequent posters. Both of which are well documented in Eccie history.

This is why mostly all these types of threads before long end up with most of posts being by guys and the thread becoming a sausage fest. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

WRONG, look you and i disagree on this. But this is a business to most of the women on this site, and many clearly state that any compensation or donation is for their time only. The lack of women posting is an indication of not wanting to waste the time to do so. Just my opinion.

100%

WRONG, look you and i disagree on this. But this is a business to most of the women on this site, and many clearly state that any compensation or donation is for their time only. The lack of women posting is an indication of not wanting to waste the time to do so. Just my opinion. Originally Posted by Golden Man

WRONG, look you and i disagree on this. But this is a business to most of the women on this site, and many clearly state that any compensation or donation is for their time only. The lack of women posting is an indication of not wanting to waste the time to do so. Just my opinion. Originally Posted by Golden Man

Yes, you and I have to agree to disagree, but just to give you some samples just in the last couple of months alone of what I am talking about of a member starting a thread asking for ladies opinions:

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2585405

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2557595

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2553321

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2548660

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2537906

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2547144

Notice the sausage fest that ensues and couple so bad, the threads were locked. Perhaps all hobbyists should contribute monthly to a slush fund and when a provider chooses to answer a question, then she can request some compensation for doing so, LOL!!! But then again, maybe you are right, those questions were not worth providers time responding to either.

I can buy my own drink & yours if I wanted too...
But to go out with someone I'v never met on off the clock no thanks
, Don't need to wast my time when I can book a hr or longer appt

I do have a dinner rate .
This is OUR income ,
OP Do you work for free ? Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF

Gina, first let me say that I am a huge admirer of yours!! And hope to meet you in person some day. And I’m sure as established as a provider as you are you can buy us all drinks although I would never let you buy me one. My question or questions are more along the line of eidetic and not so much “giving me free time”. I too am capable of paying for more than drinks and would love to but as a couple of hobbiest have mentioned I use some of the general knowledge gained from the coed threads to be selective in who I want to spend my time and money on. I would never expect anyone to do something they don’t want to for free or otherwise. I doubt that any woman I have ever spent time with here on eccie or otherwise would not consider me a giving person. My question was simply asking about getting a drink not a night on the town just a drink where I can feel more like someone who is meeting a beautiful woman such as yourself at a bar and not just a business deal.

And to all the other guys trying to advise me as to what women want well unless you are a women......I didn’t ask you. Everyone else sharing an experience (or several of you experiences) and those of you who are contributing positively to this post, thank you and I appreciate your contributions.

Drinks, meals, hang outs can happen off the clock if there's a connection after you've visited them before, everybody on this site is different, you have your gold diggers that view all men as a ATM and nothing more to the open minded individuals from both sides,

everyone is different so you'll get very different answers that have to do with personal choice, none of them are wrong. The hang out women is a small percentage btw. Happy hunting

Contrary to how I may come off to some on this board I am very easy going, easy to talk to, and like to smile, laugh, and have a good time. So I've had some women hang out with me "off the clock" b/c we clicked and genuinely had a good time. However, it is rare and I don't go in expecting it. I don't initiate or push for it. Even though I can usually feel that it's that type of vibe, I still let them be the one to make it known. And even still, I like to occasionally double check and make sure they're comfortable with it as time progresses. I'm sure it's no coincidence that those are also some of my most memorable hobby experiences.

OP seems to be looking for a natural vibe where a lady wants to genuinely hang out and not really be "on the clock". Truth is, it's one of those things that if you have to ask then the answer is probably no.