it took me watching some instructionial Nina Hartley vids and a lot of practice on girls I dated and feedback in my late 20's to figure out how to do it. sounds like these guys are just too lazy to learn or they don't get much action outside of the hobbyist worldI've never gotten through the whole Nina Hartley videos, I always get sidetracked and stop paying attention to the instructional part then when that's done nothing is sexy to me and I close the video.
i won't finger a provider though at all unless she specifically asks though, i know that can be uncomfortable Originally Posted by joesmo888
I agree though, guys think about sex all the time but never "study up". Sure you can watch videos and read books/guides but you'll never be any good if you don't go out and put your new found knowledge to use. They can pick up some techniques at least then use her body language as a guide to go the rest of the way.
That's why I dislike quiet women that don't do much when receiving, if she's loud then gets quiet I can guess the change up was a bad choice and try something different.
I've noticed once you let women know it's ok for her to hump your face like a rabbit in heat, they can usually subtly show you how they like it as far as pressure and speed among other things.