Is business that good.

That's all warm and fuzzy, but we are not getting paid to be actresses, if so, I'd raise my rates...LOL If we were all that good, we'd head to Hollywood or do a porn with Ron Jeremy (btw...can you say ewww? He's a nice guy and all, but I wouldn't do him..LOL) Is that a bad thing? I don't necessarily think so. Some of us have to have some level of connection or just have limits on the types of guys we can provide services to. We know this about ourselves. That's a good thing, don't ya think? Saying we must provide to any and all that want us to, is like saying we have no rights to decision making concerning our bodies when we enter this business....that's not such a good thing. Matter of fact, it's the kind of thing that ladies with pimps must be subjected to. It would nice if more gents would stop seeing us as subhuman with limited choices and no feelings.

Ya know, it's ALWAYS a HUGE compliment to be chosen from so many. However, we can pick and choose just as the gentlemen can. I'm not sure who the lady was or what her age was, but she may have psychological issues about doing older gentlemen or something. She should have been diplomatic in her response though. Sorry your feelings got hurt, hon. If you're an established hobbyist, you already know there are plenty of gorgeous ladies who will make ya feel like a King. Originally Posted by M A X

+1000!!!
you said it better than i could ever think about saying it.

we all have a choice on who we visit. i dont see any upside in questioning someone's decision criteria or process [formal or informal].

i may not agree with their process, but it's their process, right or wrong.
and like Max said, "here are plenty of gorgeous ladies who will make ya feel like a King."

What VNurse said is sure true. Go see her for a great time. Vicki, You can pay me later

Got turned down for being 50 and body mass not in proportion.
Oh, Well more money to spend on others.
Two months ago at 49 she would have laid me. LOL Originally Posted by BossyWillson

Well it's her loss. I know what she missed out on!

For any ladies reading this: I'm old, decrepit, overweight, out-of-shape, anti-social, clumsy, lethargic, generally clueless in bed, boring, and an opinionated curmudgeon. Originally Posted by Chevalier

*cough, cough* bullsh**

She should put on her website or where ever she has info listed that she likes younger fit men..

Dont advertise you see and please all when you dont.

Doesn't matter who she prefers to see it should be stated up front like a policy.

I have what I like and dont like in black and white on my site. I also dont advertise I see everyone either because I dont.

I am in agreement here too! OMG! I have been blasted before for saying such and yes, it IS true that it is up to a provider to decide who she will and won't see.

I have NEVER EVER discriminated because of age, size nor anything else and I never will! I also GUARANTEE that I have never given less than my very best to ANYONE I have seen!

I'm sorry that the OP had to experience this but on the other hand, I'm glad for the girls around here that keep my calendar full! Originally Posted by vnurse

Yep and we're the ones that are still here!

Lol. I think 50 years old = more experience. Why turn down someone that will treat me right and that won't rush on me?...I am just saying.

*cough, cough* bullsh**
Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan

OK, OK. Some ladies don't consider me boring. But they're a small minority. Other than that, I stand by my original post. You obviously have not spent enough time around me in person.

I'm trying to set reasonable expectations here, Meg! Better to pleasantly surprise the ladies than unpleasantly surprise them. Luckily, other than anti-social, boring, and opinionated curmudgeon, most of those factors don't matter too much with most of the ladies. Personality is important, but polite/respectful (I can fake that) goes a long way. They might prefer to see George Clooney or Leonardo DiCaprio walk through the door, but as long as we're not Quasimodo . . .

It's been a year or so ago but I got turned down for my age and weight as well. As soon as I mentioned I was big she just quit communicating with me. She doesn't advertise anymore though atleast not to my knowledge anyway?

Well its only hundreds more providers out there...literately!!!!!

In any "endeavor", information is King. I would (and do) appreciate a lady providing this type of information so that I can see it prior to contacting her. However, in any case, I do appreciate ladies being upfront and honest about their likes/dislikes and their willingness to decline my inquiry if they do not feel that I am someone (for any reason) that they would not be able to provide the level of service that they pride themselves in.

If I didn't know this prior to contact, sure I would probably be a little disappointed, because obviously, if I contacted her, it was because something piqued my interest (and certain male cravings), but I would be more disappointed in having paid for a lackluster time with her.

maybe all of us old fat farts should just shut up and stay @ home with rosie

maybe all of us old fat farts should just shut up and stay @ home with rosie
Originally Posted by bigbill969

LMAO...as long as Rosie doesn't shoot you down and can offer a good session...lol

I doubt you are too old and fat for the classier ladies around here to spoil you. Besides, we ladies can offer a few different strokes compared to Rosie. But do what you must.

After reading this, I have changed my mind. My feelings would not be hurt if I was turned down because of my age. After all, I am 65, and when I was in my 20s, 30s, or 40s, I would not have had sex with a 65 yr old lady, even if I did get paid a couple hundred dollars. I guess I just need to put things in context, and I just did. So, ladies keep turning me down if age is a factor, I will just keep searching. Dont hate me cause im old, just dont screw me if ya dont wanna.

I would rather a provider tell me she does not want to see me, rather than having her say yes and having a bad session.

Well, I just had a session with a provider this evening that was absolutely wonderful. It is the best I have had in a long time! Hell, I had to eat a candy bar when I got home because I had the "shakes" from overexertion!

She didn't mind at all that I was a bit chubby and nearing 50 years of age. All she said to me was, Where did you learn how to do that?!!," after we had a marathon DATY session in which she had 4 explosive orgasms!

So each to his/her own as the old lady said when she kissed the cow. If some of these young'uns think us old farts ain't any good or they are repulsed by or weight/age, never fear, there are some out there a lot more open minded and know a good thing (an experienced man) when they have it!!