dirty talk

Love it...however, don't hear it as much as I'd like...

There are a couple well-reviewed ladies here that I've seen a few times, who are into some kinky stuff. So I was kinda surprised that neither really talked dirty, and added that dimension to the whole experience. They were both very cool, very laid back in general, but just didn't go there.

So—here's another question—if you want it, should you tell your provider that you like it? And encourage them to do it? I typically like to let things play out naturally. However, I wouldn't want them thinking I'm not into it, and hold back.

Love it...however, don't hear it as much as I'd like...

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So—here's another question—if you want it, should you tell your provider that you like it? And encourage them to do it? I typically like to let things play out naturally. However, I wouldn't want them thinking I'm not into it, and hold back. Originally Posted by NorthDallas30

As I said earlier in this thread, the answer from me to the OP's question was both moaning and a little dirty talk, but more ego stroking talk is what I call it. IMO, the answer to your questions are yes you do as it is a very good idea to let a provider what you like, after all, it is your money and all she can do is say no. To me, discreetness is greatly appreciated when we are away from each other, if/when we are meeting in person somewhere beforehand and of course when we are not on the clock, but certainly not while we are together in a BCD session.

I ask every provider I am even thinking about setting an appointment with if they have a p411 account, and if so, to please read my profile on there first. And basically, without me having to say things through text/PM or over the phone, it lets them know what I like (moaning, dirty talk, active participation, ect.) in hopes that it weeds out the less consistent providers who are YMMV and/or the ones who do not know how to at least act like they enjoy what they do, aka IOP, as usually those types providers will respond back to me that I am asking too much of them, if they even respond back at all.

Or what about when they whisper sweet nothings in a foreign language in your ear while they're fucking you. Idk wtf he is saying. He could be telling me in that my pussy feels like a cheese grater and it would still sound sexy. Lol Originally Posted by thathottnurse

What about leaning forward while being inside a lady, putting my mouth close to here ears quietly stating " melethril nîn, ú-chebin estel anim"... I tried that yesterday but I don't think she heard me through her screaming.

What about leaning forward while being inside a lady, putting my mouth close to here ears quietly stating " melethril nîn, ú-chebin estel anim"... I tried that yesterday but I don't think she heard me through her screaming. Originally Posted by Reverseheadstock

Now I get it.....
Lmao

Love the sighs, moans and dirty talk...as long as it's not scripted and insincere. Rather have a gal be quiet than a poor faker.

As I've aged, I've learned to control my climax until I'm sated and ready to cum. Nothing pushes me over the edge better than hearing a lady tell me to "cum for me." Variations like "cum all over my tits, cum in my pussy, cum in my mouth" all work the same magic.

On the same note, I love when a lady is getting close and I can make the same type of statement, begging for her to come...

Sincerity (read: credibility) is key. I know I'm not the best fuck you've ever had, but if you like my cock, tell me - and the dirtier the better. I've had some providers tell me great things before and after that turned me on, but those same remarks while we're in the act would send me sky-high. So yeah, the dirtier the better especially if both of us get into the act. Great thread, AngelRyder!

We can't talk dirty enough to each other. I can go into some pretty kinky/freaky/fetish shit too if you're down for it... You'll get me harder, more cum, and multiples out of me if you're willing to venture down there. Originally Posted by FunInDFW

Or what about when they whisper sweet nothings in a foreign language in your ear while they're fucking you. Idk wtf he is saying. He could be telling me in that my pussy feels like a cheese grater and it would still sound sexy. Lol Originally Posted by thathottnurse

I absolutely love this and couldn't agree more!!!
Where as I crave an hot accent (latin) or other language, I am super turned on when dirty talk is initiated by him. Always nice to spice it up.

There's nothing hotter to me than dating someone who is uber vanilla and bringing out their wild side!

<<--- Uber vanilla.

<<--- Uber vanilla. Originally Posted by Reverseheadstock

Ha!

Ha! Originally Posted by SexyStephTx

This is a thread about dirty talk. Now get back to some suggestions that might help. Ya dirty horny screaming sex fiend!

I think the dirty talk is just another layer on the entire experience. Some people like a three layer dip or a banana split with extra sprinkles. Some like 4 olives in their dirty martini, some like it dry, straight up. Some people like to be with a partner that take the whole fucking Baskin Robbins store, pour it into a liquor store with a 500lb barrel of olives and stir it with a chainsaw. Could be a lot of flavor is what some people like. When two people (or 3 or 4 or 5 or 6) get together if their preferred taste levels match pretty close, or even exactly, no matter how many flavors are being enjoyed, the time spent is complete. It is fulfilling to the hilt.

Best not leave it anywhere but on the pitch, else you missed out on something.

Tell Dan I got his money, Still vanilla.

I love initiating dirty talk because of the reaction that is followed. Something like "Can I rub my pussy on your cock then lick and suck my juices off your dick?" Of course with a nice, sexy and seductive tone. For some reason, I feel the need to ask, in case that is something they don't want to do, Lol

This is a thread about dirty talk. Now get back to some suggestions that might help. Ya dirty horny screaming sex fiend!

I think the dirty talk is just another layer on the entire experience. Some people like a three layer dip or a banana split with extra sprinkles. Some like 4 olives in their dirty martini, some like it dry, straight up. Some people like to be with a partner that take the whole fucking Baskin Robbins store, pour it into a liquor store with a 500lb barrel of olives and stir it with a chainsaw. Could be a lot of flavor is what some people like. When two people (or 3 or 4 or 5 or 6) get together if their preferred taste levels match pretty close, or even exactly, no matter how many flavors are being enjoyed, the time spent is complete. It is fulfilling to the hilt.

Best not leave it anywhere but on the pitch, else you missed out on something.

Tell Dan I got his money, Still vanilla. Originally Posted by Reverseheadstock

I just had an orgasm reading this! While driving.
With my new ballgag on!

I absolutely love this and couldn't agree more!!!
Where as I crave an hot accent (latin) or other language, I am super turned on when dirty talk is initiated by him. Always nice to spice it up.

There's nothing hotter to me than dating someone who is uber vanilla and bringing out their wild side!
Originally Posted by berkleigh

<--- if i was anymore vanilla Blue Bell would be my sponser.

Looking for you on I30 Steph!! Lol

I love initiating dirty talk because of the reaction that is followed. Something like "Can I rub my pussy on your cock then lick and suck my juices off your dick?" Of course with a nice, sexy and seductive tone. For some reason, I feel the need to ask, in case that is something they don't want to do, Lol Originally Posted by Bliss of DFW

And you do it exceptionally well Bliss with your sweet, sexy and seductive voice. I am in Awe with your Dirty Talking skills Bliss. You should be giving Dirty Talk lesions IMO. You're among the Best!!