need advice for doing a threesome.....

Three suggestions:

1) You pick the third. He's not involved for anything other than yes/no with the person you choose. You don't want to be haunted by the things he's attracted to.

2) Pick somebody disposable, not somebody who will be lingering around the outskirts of your relationship. Keep it sexual.

3) Don't be in a rush and skip the swingers scene. YOU will not have a problem 'recruiting' a third in clubs, as long as your guy isn't Shrek.

Good luck and have fun.

my only non-planned 3some was when a provider and I went out and after drinks, dinner and drinks, she wanted to go to a titty bar.... we basically ended up paying, in terms of dances ad drinks, the equivalent of what I could have paid for a 2 hr session with a 2nd provider... that said when #1 said to me that she wanted to pick up a girl and bring her home, I was wowed and gung-ho.... the thrill of the hunt and the art of the possible really enhanced what was a really fun time

Enjoy and please do report back LOL

This has been an interesting thread. I posted one with some of the same questions. Nice to see another woman wanting the same thing.

Someone above mentioned a swinger's club. Is that a good place to look for finding a single woman?

An additional female is difficult to find, which is why they are referred to as "golden unicorns".

Playing with others requires both parts of the relationship to recognize the difference between commitment and recreation. Whether we are looking at a swinger site, or seeing females while out to dinner, my bf and I always discuss who is attractive and why.

Good luck - I know how challenging it is to find another girl!

I love the cover of this book on threesomes...http://amzn.com/1592332714

Well, in your case since this is a gift and a little excitement for you as well, a threesome with a civilian would be more exciting. The reason I would say so is because at least you would know that the female is really into you and not following through because she is being paid.

At the same time, with a civilian your time is more flexible. You can meet up for drinks or if the connection happens, the actually session can extend for hours.

Good luck on your venture. I'd say get online and search. I once met a couple when "she" posted that she was looking for a lady to join them. There was a lot of flirtation that took place before we met in person. They sent me photos. They even had me listen in while they made love. By the time I met them in person, I already felt connected. She was absolutely gorgeous. He man was a Marine. Ahhhh pleasant time.

Stay positive and do not force it or you may end up with awful experience.

35 = "older guy". Well just kiss my elderly ass. That's as depressing a sentence as I've read in a month. I guess I'll just drag my early 50's butt back to the old nursing home and see if they've found my dentures yet. Originally Posted by TexTushHog

Don't forget Saturday night is Bingo and Chocolate pudding night.

We have decided that we're not going to push this threesome situation. He wants to really be involved in the process so having it be a surprise will not work. I have planned something else very special anyway. Thanks for all the help and advice!!!

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Your bf will absolutely love it....threesomes http://sxyjade101.escortwebsite.com/photos.phtmlare soooooo fun!! Originally Posted by sxyjade101

seeing you in those gorgeous outfit you have, (then taking them off) is more than enough Valentine's present for me!

Threesomes are fun,exciting and recreational but that's something that has to be thought through based on how you feel about that person.

We have decided that we're not going to push this threesome situation. He wants to really be involved in the process so having it be a surprise will not work. I have planned something else very special anyway. Thanks for all the help and advice!!! Originally Posted by maria goddess

Good luck, Maria! We are in the same boat. I, too, am in a relationship and he doesn't know I'm a provider. I am not into threesome (not into women or more than 1 man), but even if I was, I think my man will get overwhelmed by it. He has a hard time keeping up with me already in every aspect. LOL. Have fun, girl!