Hobbyists - How did you get started?

awl4knot's Avatar
1. 56
2. A guy at a bar said there were escorts to be found on the Internet. "No way!" I gasped, but it was true and on a trip to Austin I made it happen.
3. Divorced
4. Ten years and counting
5. My first Austin based escort told me about ASPD
6. No and prolly will never be
7. N/A, but this would be an issue if I remarried but see answer to No. 6
8. 18 with girlfriend
9. Absolutely. I was raised a Catholic and sent to parochial school where the nuns inflicted deep layers of guilt.
terrier16973479's Avatar
1. 23.
2. Living at my parents after college, living upstairs in an unfinished attic, no privacy, completely stressed, went to a massage parlor for relief.
3. See above.
4. Off and on since then, lately, since I got divorced, but only recently graduated from AMP's to Escorts.
5. See my first post.
6. Divorced
7. n/a
8. 19
9. Yes to former, and ex was victim of latter.
1. How old were you when you first paid for companionship?
44

2. How did you get the idea to do so?
On the hobby bunny slopes...almost a year prior to the first sexual encounter, started going to massage places. Took a while to finally find one that did extras. Two months later a very cute Asian massage therapist whose ad was on CL and was working at a motel 12/2 became my first sexual romp.

3. What was your life situation when you did. Married and employed but as the kids were getting older the wife was getting less interested in sex. She was also less interesting to me.

4. How long have you been a hobbyist? 11 years.

5. How did you find ECCIE? Was using CL and BP providers as I didn't know better. Saw an ad in which one lady advertised she was ECCIE reviewed so I looked it up on line. Spent two hours just checking out showcases. Saw one ad on there for a beautiful provider that was newbie friendly and just happened to remember her phone number when an encounter with a BP lady started shitty with up selling. I walked before any activity took place and I called the ECCIE provider. (Was nervous as hell cuz I knew the BP and CL ladies were mostly street walkers with digital streets but the ECCIE ladies gave the impression of classy and intelligent ladies.) She answered, was available in an hour, went to the appointment and she was such a great experience it sold me on ECCIE. She set the standard for GFE and saw her many, many times.

6. Are you married? Yes.

7. If so, does she know or suspect that you are a hobbyist? No.

8. At what age did you lose your virginity? Nocturnal ejac 14, Hand 14...real woman 20.

9. Did you have any abusive parents or relatives and/or had you ever been molested as a minor? No....quite the opposite with loving and fantastic family.