Unfortunately, it is harder for ebony providers to shake negative perceptions some people have because blacks at times are seen as a group rather than an individual. If you have limited contact with people of a different race then the few you do see become your representatives and that isn't always positive. I've had several hobby buddies ask about girls I've reviewed over the years and their biggest concern is that she isn't "ghetto" and that it's safe to see her. I never get that question about ladies who aren't ebony. As long as you continue to build your reputation and don't fall into either of those categories, you should do well. Good luck. Originally Posted by gdiddyI've never been with an ebony provider or with an ebony lady in my private life. Gdiddys' response pretty much sums up my feelings and views.
Yes, there are some extremely attractive ebony providers (Eden you are one of them) that I wouldn't mind spending time with. Would I like to see one? Yes. Will I? Don't know. For me it's all about the comfort level so the experience can truely be enjoyed.
Say, for a first time meeting between a provider and client there isn't that much communication other than screening and some chit chat. So most of the time your're going on a gut feeling that everything will go smooth and some type of chemistry will exist. If I have a somewhat negative feeling about ebony providers to begin with (yes my fault) do I really want too take the chance.
Unfortunately stereotypes are a bitch too strip away especially if someone (myself included) isn't willing to try. In this case I have no doubt it's my loss.