EBONY or EBONY MIXED LOVERS is it just me. . .

I don't mind any race, however I haven't been with an ebony provider (I am not white, nor black) nor an ebony woman in civil life. I NEED TO CHANGE THIS ASAP, not sure why, but I always gravitated towards white and latin women.

I find myself now looking at ebony providers the one thing that stops me is the most I see posting are not too attractive (if im paying, I want her to be hot in my eyes) and some look really ghetto with too many crazy tattoos. I love tatts but some of them are just really distracting and off putting.

hopefully I can find that right person to pop my cherry lol
Lol i havent explore the east side of texas yet. Los Angeles smog blew me in lol.
Blacker the berry sweeter the juice island gent Originally Posted by SunniD
That's how the saying goes, there may in fact be some truth to that.

I love the variety of women I can experience in the hobby. All races are welcome in my book. But unfortunately, I am of the race of men that tend to get screened out pretty regularly in the hobby world. So my options are limited but I have fun where I can. Being in Austin I wish there were more ebony/mixed options.
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ruaNN SOKA,lOVE-CHASE,CHAMPAGNE BROWN, seeking P, Mia love,Lili,SexyPeachy,...shall i go on?? lol

there are many sexy AA women on this boARD ...but more importantly do ur research and find one that is attractive to u cause that list goes much longer if u consider Beauty is in the eye of the Beholder.

My list is only the providers that show theyre faces BTW...there are myriad others
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ruaNN SOKA,lOVE-CHASE,CHAMPAGNE BROWN, seeking P, Mia love,Lili,SexyPeachy,...shall i go on?? lol

there are many sexy AA women on this boARD ...but more importantly do ur research and find one that is attractive to u cause that list goes much longer if u consider Beauty is in the eye of the Beholder.

My list is only the providers that show theyre faces BTW...there are myriad others Originally Posted by maineblame
Maybe its the area im in. Lol but thank you for your insight
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I love the variety of women I can experience in the hobby. All races are welcome in my book. But unfortunately, I am of the race of men that tend to get screened out pretty regularly in the hobby world. So my options are limited but I have fun where I can. Being in Austin I wish there were more ebony/mixed options. Originally Posted by Cunt Hunt

Why do you think you get screened so much Lol?
Why do you think you get screened so much Lol? Originally Posted by SunniD
Just making reference to the dissapointment I feel when I'm checking out a provider I'm interested in and see the dreaded NBA policy. Screened out b4 I had a chance. But it's the provider's choice so I have to respect it. Not complaining or saying I can't find someone to engage, just saying according to the theme of the thread that the race of the provider is not a problem for me but my race can be a problem.
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Just making reference to the dissapointment I feel when I'm checking out a provider I'm interested in and see the dreaded NBA policy. Screened out b4 I had a chance. But it's the provider's choice so I have to respect it. Not complaining or saying I can't find someone to engage, just saying according to the theme of the thread that the race of the provider is not a problem for me but my race can be a problem. But please let me know if you ever pass through ATX because you are HAWT!! Originally Posted by Cunt Hunt

Thats understandable. I dont discriminate, lol but thank you very much i should be in ATX in a couple weeks. I'll be sure to keep you in mind
I do notice some clients who put "No AA providers" in ISO posts. Just like there are providers who will not see Black men, there are clients, whether they explicitly verbalize this or not, who will not see Black women. On the other hand, there are so many stunning Black providers on here. If I were a hobbyist, I'd surely go broke! Here's a great thread "Elegant Ebonies" with an abundance of babes and gents who appreciate Black women.
And that is one of the finest threads to ever grace this board. There are some stunning ladies in it.
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my assessment of this thread, is that the OP assumes her lack of traffic is due to her race, but it's really about CBJ, and the lack of business most Providers who are CBJ-only face..
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my assessment of this thread, is that the OP assumes her lack of traffic is due to her race, but it's really about CBJ, and the lack of business most Providers who are CBJ-only face.. Originally Posted by Chung Tran

But thats not at all what i said or feel lol. Please re read thread. I said i feel like there beautiful ethnic women thats i see getting skipped over for facially challenged ppl or different body images. Never said my traffic was slow either. No assumptions. This thread is for hobbyists and providers insight or thoughts thats it.
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I do notice some clients who put "No AA providers" in ISO posts. Just like there are providers who will not see Black men, there are clients, whether they explicitly verbalize this or not, who will not see Black women. On the other hand, there are so many stunning Black providers on here. If I were a hobbyist, I'd surely go broke! Here's a great thread "Elegant Ebonies" with an abundance of babes and gents who appreciate Black women. Originally Posted by Lena Duvall

How do i like this thread? Amazing women !
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But thats not at all what i said or feel lol. Please re read thread. I said i feel like there beautiful ethnic women thats i see getting skipped over for facially challenged ppl or different body images. Originally Posted by SunniD
you feel like that is happening? how would you know? if your business is fine, I wonder what metric you utilize that suggests beautiful ethnic women are passed over?


there's a lot that goes into our choices.. price, location, service-level.. I think race is a miniscule item in the big picture.. for example, I've been labelled as a BBW seeker, but those I have seen that are BBW got me in spite of their largess.. price, location and service trumped the fatty deposits.
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you feel like that is happening? how would you know? if your business is fine, I wonder what metric you utilize that suggests beautiful ethnic women are passed over?


there's a lot that goes into our choices.. price, location, service-level.. I think race is a miniscule item in the big picture.. for example, I've been labelled as a BBW seeker, but those I have seen that are BBW got me in spite of their largess.. price, location and service trumped the fatty deposits. Originally Posted by Chung Tran

You looking in it too deep.re read the thread thanx. And thanks for your input and opinion.