Do you guys really feel a true emotional connection with your providers or come to the brink of falling in love with them? That is silly and unrealistic. It is our job to entertain you, relate to you, engage you with conversation, and make passionate love to you. A good provider will make you feel like your session is but one hour in a long, beautiful relationship. I genuinely enjoy my sessions and go in feeling comfortable and confident. That seems to rub off on my clients as I watch them quickly become the same way. It is a good feeling to provide such good feelings.
However, when I walk out of the door, I go right back to my normal self and my normal life and I do not think about you until the next time you call. That beautiful connection we shared was not real and it is ridiculous to think otherwise.
I have clients I have seen for years and had some amazing times with. Nevertheless, in my mind, and hopefully in theirs, they are only clients and I am only their provider. That line is clearly drawn and not to be crossed or even stepped on.
After I said all of that, I have to admit that there is ONE guy that started as a client that I would pursue a romantic relationship with and one that I enjoy so much I might see him for free. Of course, neither will ever know how I feel about them. This is not Pretty Woman and I am not Geena Davis. Keep it simple and stop letting your little head overpower your big one.
Originally Posted by !!Sexy Erotic Morgan
Well said. That should be written into the rules of the board.
Unfortunately, there are some lonely dudes out here and some tend to misread the illusion of passion and think that it's real and then they fall like metal ducks in a shooting gallery at the fair.
By the way, Geena Davis is actually hotter than Julia Roberts, I can see how you got confused.....don't mix up your Thelma and Louise with Vivian Ward...lol