Guys: If you found your soul mate, would you still hobby?

Finding your soulmate is the ultimate for those lucky enough to do so
The hobby is a need to satisfy a few desires or raging hormonal release due to being stuck with someone who is NOT your soulmate.....

No comparison

I was watching Brad Pitt in Meet Joe Black for the umpteenth time, and as always, found myself dreamily lingering on the shots of him giving his co-star those soulful, deep, I'm-looking-in-your-eyes-straight-to-your-heart looks, and found myself thinking(fantasizing) "If only he were all mine..."
I often wonder if there really is such a thing as a "soul mate", someone who totally fulfills your every need and stimulates you in every way-visually, intellectually, sexually..
So my question to the guys is-if you found your true soul mate, someone that is all you want and more, is your "dream girl"..would you still hobby?
I ask that because I was watching a biography of Halle Berry and thought of her boyfriend that cheated on her. I always wondered "why". I mean, it's Halle Berry. Could he really have found better?
I know guys often stray simply because they can. No other reason.
Would you? If you ever found your "dream girl"? Originally Posted by Sweet Heather

If the "Contractor' was doin' the J.O.B.... I don't think We'd "Sub" it out...

Simple answer, no, my "soul mate" would be the lover I want and would be there for me.

However, I cannot say that for sure if she was gone an extended time.
If I was married to a movie star, and they were gone (were I could not join them), for 9 out of 12 months, I might be tempted.

I think it would "s#ck" to be married to one of the prettiest women in the world and never get to be with her (and wondering if she is "doing" anyone there).

I do my meet my soul mate--just an hour at a time.

I do my meet my soul mate--just an hour at a time. Originally Posted by ANONONE

It's all about attitude... a Soul Mate would say...

1. Are you sure you've had enough to drink?
2. Shouldn't you be down at the bar with your buddies?
3. That was a great fart...do another one.
4. I've decided to stop wearing clothes around the house.
5. You're so sexy when you're hung over.
6. I'd rather watch football and drink beer with you than go shopping.
7. Let's subscribe to Hustler.
8. Say, lets go to the mall so you can check out other women's asses.
9. I'll be out painting the house.
10. I love it when you play golf on Sunday's...I wish you had time to play on Saturday too.
11. Honey... our new neighbors wife is sunbathing topless again...come see.
12. No, No, I can take the car to get the oil changed.
13. Your mother is wayyy better than mine.
14. Do me a favor, forget the stupid Valentines thing and buy new clubs.
15. I understand fully...our anniversary comes every year...you go hunting with your buddies..it's a great stress reliever.
16. Oh come on, what do ya say we get a porno movie, a six pack and invite one of my girlfriends over for a threesome.
17. Oh no, not the mall again...let's go to a strip club.
18. Listen, I make enough money for the both of us, why don't you retire and get that nagging handicap down to 7 or 8.
19. I'll swallow it all, I love the taste.
20. I'm bored, let's shave my pubes.
21. Would you like to watch me go down on my girlfriend?
22. I know it's tighter back there, but could you please try again?
23. If I don't get to blow you soon, I swear I'm gonna bust.
24. I signed up for yoga so that I can get my ankles behind my head , just for you. Originally Posted by ThatManFromTexas

Nobody makes me laugh deeper than you bud!!!

I would not cheat on her,

Well I have my soul-mate but her sex drive is about as visible as my dick. So, in order to have a happy and content life I have got to do something. So here I am looking to start hobbying after a long time of being pissed at her for not putting out.

I mean you can't make her want to have sex more than she wants to. As much as I love being with my SO we just aren't sexually compatible.

I’m not a guy, but no I wouldn’t. I’m not much of a cheater. It just takes too much damn energy.

I was lucky enough to find my "soulmate" and married her.
I didn't even think of hobbying or cheating while we were together.
Unfortunatley she wasn't faithfull.
So I dropped her like a hot rock, along with half of everything I owned.
So I guess I wasn't as lucky as I thought.

If she loved Ass to Mouth, I would not cheat on her.

I met mine, it was like ice skating uphill for two years... never again. Just like Santa Clause, the term "soul mate" has been commercialized and romantized, there is no such thing, if you can't be with the one you love... love the one your with.

i would like to know a females definition of soul mate? really to me...its a fairy tale....and we all know that does not happen. often times we get involved trying to build the perfect relationship.....we choose this and that from different persons....subconsciously.

i would like to know a females definition of soul mate? really to me...its a fairy tale....and we all know that does not happen. often times we get involved trying to build the perfect relationship.....we choose this and that from different persons....subconsciously. Originally Posted by windowshopper

Well, I found my soul mate. Her name was Jessica, we lived in LA, not only was our sex together unbelievably awesome and fulfilling, our ideal Saturday would be to get up, fix breakfast together, go to Serenity Spa on Melrose for a massage, mani-pedi, and salt scrub, Christophe for a blow out and makeup, lunch somewhere in the Grove, shopping on Melrose, the Beverly Center, and the Grove, getting ready and picking out each others outfit and helping each other with the hair, makeup etc, going out and dancing and drinking till the wee hours, sleeping late the next day wrapped in each others arms(after we had kicked out the guy we brought home for a 3-some), getting up and holding each other as we rode out the hangoversLOL..not sure if I could find a male soul mate that could fulfill me like that.......
did I mention the sex was great, all the time?

The real question might be..If The provider met her soul mate ..Would she quit..And is that really possible to meet someone in this hobby and become seriously involved?