found out shes a retired hobbyist

I wish. Originally Posted by Satyrrical

Retired escorts always come back to business.Very few come back.Escorts promoting retiring brings in business.

Leave a white envelope on the dresser with 4 Benjies in it and see what happens.

Leave a white envelope on the dresser with 4 Benjies in it and see what happens. Originally Posted by Zhivago52

Kinda funny but no.....Hell maybe someday we will get to that comfort level.

Retired escorts always come back to business.Very few come back.Escorts promoting retiring brings in business. Originally Posted by Fancylady

Could someone please take the Internet away from Fancy!?!?!

Could someone please take the Internet away from Fancy!?!?! Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

Why? You didn't understand her post?

I got it. I'd guess most others got it. Who's she harming posting in her unusual style? I find her unique style refreshing.

Do not bring the hobby up to her. As curious as you may be, do not bring up her past escorting. If she brings it up listen, and do not judge. As far as you go, do not get involved in the hobby. She probably has trust issues to begin with and you hobbying will only diminish the trust she has in you. Originally Posted by pyramider

Pyramider, This is the first pleasant thing I have read from you. You are human...

Do not bring the hobby up to her. As curious as you may be, do not bring up her past escorting. If she brings it up listen, and do not judge. As far as you go, do not get involved in the hobby. She probably has trust issues to begin with and you hobbying will only diminish the trust she has in you. Originally Posted by pyramider

Wisely stated!

She is the one sorting out her past from her future. Much depends on how she came to be escorting. There are methods and professionals that can help her talk through past "angst" but you are not in that role. Your role is to be supportive and understanding. She may also fear losing you if you "hear" too much so don't insist on it. Enjoy the amour you two build together.

shes your fiance, you know what works for the two of you to make it this far...

if you two want to talk about it, talk about it.
if she doesnt want to answer a question, move on.
just like if she asks you any question.. if you answer it, cool. if not, cool. move on.

everything in life is about being level, some type of balance.. right? so be sure that you arent keeping all of your future vindictive blackmail stories a secret. thats the biggest problem that i personally see. you love her now, but if ever push came to shove, for any reason, well....

Wisely stated!

She is the one sorting out her past from her future. Much depends on how she came to be escorting. There are methods and professionals that can help her talk through past "angst" but you are not in that role. Your role is to be supportive and understanding. She may also fear losing you if you "hear" too much so don't insist on it. Enjoy the amour you two build together. Originally Posted by Luv2Munch

I believe most of her angst is of scaring me away. Which is not possible with anything from the past. Weve both shared enough with each other to scare most people and seem stronger for it. Hell im still piecing together the early 90s of my own shenanigans. Sex is fun. To each there own. There is no judgement here.

Retired escorts always come back to the business Originally Posted by Fancylady

I wish. Originally Posted by Satyrrical

Is she a blonde, 36C, with a tattoo near her…
Nah…couldn’t be.
Pyramided could have knocked me over with a feather.
I think the exorcism worked.
Sometimes they do not come back and manage to leave this all behind.
If she wants to forget about it, then forget about it.
That’s what Jesus would do.

She's a retired hobbyist?
Too bad she doesn't monger anymore.
We need more female mongers.

Leave a white envelope on the dresser with 4 Benjies in it and see what happens. Originally Posted by Zhivago52

ROLEPLAY!

This goes back to one of those sayings: Don't ask questions that you really don't want answers to.

Do you really like the idea of your lady telling you stories of how many cocks have run through her and some of the crap she has had to put up with? Best to leave that one alone.