What has this hobby come to, where a overweight 300lbs guy is looking to fork out hundreds of dollars and some providers have a issue with it? I say F 'them and take the $ where it's appreciated. That's my opinion on this topic. Originally Posted by biglatinmaleI DO understand where you've coming from. But there was one person, who is still active on this board, and she had an overweight man die on her.
So ... and this may not still be true because this happened SO many years ago ... but I think that she is hesitant to see really overweight men any longer. She's a lovely person. One can hardly blame her.
And some females are just prejudice with regard to fat people. They feel the same way about fat women, too.
I just like to accept the fact that everyone is entitled to see who they wish to see and for whatever reason, compelling or otherwise.
It's their bodies. And their essence that they're selling. And more.
It's actually an unfair statement to expect, or demand, that a female see just anyone and for any reason. Life and work doesn't happen that way. Not that you were actually implying that.
Back to my morning coffee!
Take care,
Elisabeth
P.S. I think that men should disclose unusual things. Some examples of what I'm speaking of are large scars, missing limbs, full blown psoriasis (which I know isn't catching but it's good to share such things) and the occasional full body tattoo.
I've been around the block more than most but I can still get a bit, well, weirded out if I see something that is just bizarre or medically unsound looking. One guy showed up, he was cute but stripped, and he had over 10 piercings up and down his cock. I would have liked to have known that beforehand. (Or maybe not!)
Weight doesn't really matter to me at all but even then, once an 550 man showed up at my incall. He could barely walk and my room was upstairs. If he had told me that he was that big, I could have made arrangements so that we both felt more comfortable.
I'm not going to NOT see someone because of physical flaws (excuse the double negative in that sentence!). But knowing some of them, or telling me about ED or having a penis pump, just helps me to make our time together flow better. And be more sensual overall.
Originally Posted by BrownSugarBaby