LaVida's im a victim thread.

Try again.
I don't see an end game strategy.
I see a clear winner for this website and hits/traffic.
I see the normal character assianation crew who feeds on this.
I don't see any new or beneficial case law or discussion that is a national tradigy.

I see two clear losers , and it's the two parties involved and I'm sorry for that.

Has this happened to you before VIDA?. With your hard sleeping habits it seems that you may have fallen asleep next to someone before. No I feel for you BC rape is so fucked up. But the more you scream it with out real hard proof, all your doing is scaring people of that might want to see you... If your not level and could scream rape again that may not be a safe potion for a hobbyists. Js, get more proof or just file.

Women who cry wolf can forget about ever getting a creampie from me.

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Since what I said in response is such a BIG issue, can anyone please tell me the appropriate response when placed in an awkward encounter with the guy who took advantage of you, asks you what do you want......? I'll wait......
... Originally Posted by La Vida

I would want the other person to acknowledge my feelings (doesn't mean he has to agree with everything I've said) and an apology makes a big difference.

Blame and character assassination aren't very productive even if it feels good. I am with jack$lit about talking in person and I'm happy to help too.

Both of your stories are your truths and it's sad to see two great people in this situation. I think it was whispers who posted about mixing work and pleasure / friends and clients/providers. I think he made some good points about how hard that can be. Communication is key and it can be super messy as shown here.

I don't think either of you are bad people I just think your expectations and perceptions were not and are still not aligned.

Pressing charges won't bring the healing or resolution that talking and working through it restoratively (off of this board) will. At least that has been my experience with these types of situations (not just in the hobby).

I have to agree with piece of shit Mata on this one. Does anyone else picture him jumping on a bed throwing tantrums?

As for Vida.

Sounds like you consented to the initial drunken sex and then got angry because you felt like a girlfriend the 2nd time around. I think you either have commitment or daddy issues. Personally I think you're just mentally unstable. There's a term for going from "Let's fuck baby!" to "What did you do to me?"....oh yeah it's called fucking bipolar crazy psychotic disorder. So that really isn't a thing but it should be.

It is obvious that LaVida is on mission of character assassination. That is fine because she and I both know I made it clear to her when I first met her. I would not pay to see her.

She made a choice to see me off the clock.

On the 14th of Jan her and I had a total of 4 drinks each over a 5 hour period. No one was drunk.

After I left and went home. I received a text from LaVida which would be the morning of the 15th..

LaVida-Random question....have you seen that toy?

LaVida-Lol it was hiding under the mattress!!!! Almost died lol need that toy when you're not around ( 3 smileys crying )

PID-You must be talking about BoB

LaVida-Hell yes except its Bob.2 cuz he uses USB ( 1 smiley crying )

PID- I wanted some of that ass this morning too. But I figured I'd be pushing the limit. Ain't Nutin like morning sex.

LaVida- Lol most definitely

LaVida- So last night I was pretty fucked up ...... disregard and forget everything I said lol

LaVida- Or at least please don't tell anyone the stuff I told you.


If anyone would like to view the text ........... send me a pm and a way to get it to you.


If LaVida was that fucked up after 4 drinks and 5hrs. She must have taken something that I was not aware of. She appeared totally functional and Coherent.

Now parts of the dinner conversation that you don't want me to talk about make sense.

It is obvious that LaVida is on mission of character assassination. That is fine because she and I both know I made it clear to her when I first met her. I would not pay to see her.

She made a choice to see me off the clock.

On the 14th of Jan her and I had a total of 4 drinks each over a 5 hour period. No one was drunk.

After I left and went home. I received a text from LaVida which would be the morning of the 15th..

LaVida-Random question....have you seen that toy?

LaVida-Lol it was hiding under the mattress!!!! Almost died lol need that toy when you're not around ( 3 smileys crying )

PID-You must be talking about BoB

LaVida-Hell yes except its Bob.2 cuz he uses USB ( 1 smiley crying )

PID- I wanted some of that ass this morning too. But I figured I'd be pushing the limit. Ain't Nutin like morning sex.

LaVida- Lol most definitely

LaVida- So last night I was pretty fucked up ...... disregard and forget everything I said lol

LaVida- Or at least please don't tell anyone the stuff I told you.


If anyone would like to view the text ........... send me a pm and a way to get it to you.


If LaVida was that fucked up after 4 drinks and 5hrs. She must have taken something that I was not aware of. She appeared totally functional and Coherent.

Now parts of the dinner conversation that you don't want me to talk about make sense. Originally Posted by playingnthedark

I'm not sure if this is the correct forum but PID never paid TS SL either.

I bet she will also do bbfs with creampie and tell her clients not to tell anyone. Sexylatinabooty, lilbit26 and a few others told me not to tell. I bet this dude creampied LA via real good.

My 2 cents...


Hobbyists pay hookers for sex!

Hookers offer up sex for money!

Both Hobbyists & Hookers are human!

If a hooker wants to spend time off the clock with a hobbyist, that's her business! And if she didn't collect for the "FIRST" session why would he expect to pay 2-20?

Rape does NOT play into either story. Until one person says "NO" (YES guys can say no as well!) its NOT rape its consensual sex. If you guys only new how many times I've said I'm non-gfe only to be taken advantage of....I don't even want to think about it!

And liquor has NOTHING to do with this as well. If liquor lowers your inhibitions and self control then its best you don't drink especially if your invited to attend a gang bang. IJS

Carry On!

Lol, I see that you're still trying to act like the victim. It's pathetic. You sound ridiculous acting as if that proves your innocence.

You will grasp at anything, and use the vagueness of it to twist a tale to your liking.

Dude,I already told you I was just being nice trying to get you out the door after all that occurred the next morning.

I only texted you to ask about my toy. That toy values over $200. As you can see from my Twitter I cared deeply about that toy. I was crushed when he passed, lol. He shall forever be missed. Nonetheless i give thanks for his brother who came into my life shortly after.

You think asking about my toy proves your innocence or just how much I really liked that toy smh. Try harder.....

I knew I was cutting ties with you there, so i tried to do it on a calm note. You've been the one who has been trying to asassinate my character for four months now. And you still continue with your antics and shit talking to this day I see.

At least now I spoke the truth and people can hear the whole story before they decide if they want to pick sides with your lying ass. But whatever, your the sick individual who apparently has a history of doing these despicable things, to only laugh about it later,followed by continuous public harassment. Something is seriously wrong with you.

Why tf do you think I played nice before you left and after that? Just smile, nod and agree with the crazies, (and hope they dont wig out) dont you know basic psychology 101?

You and your rape supporting friends are the loose screws. To validate your security in your argument, call the cops by all means since you're so called "innocent", and report me for making supposed false claims then......I'll wait.
Or better yet, let's do a lie detecter test. Since you like to put on a show so much, I'm sure Maury will let us use his machine for free.

Sad, really how much time you've devoted to your "character assassination" on me. 4 months. Let's see how long now you shall continue......

The irony for the abuser to claim to be the victim. It happens as a defense mechanism with offenders all the time.

You say calling someone a rapist,is serious.... But is calling a rapist, "A Rapist" even serious at all? Or are you using this line to get males who agree against "False Rape Accusations" to side with a rapist, to take the attention off of the seriousness of the rape and having unsuspecting, unaware good minded people participating in further abuse and harassment to a real victim?.....

Keep trying to herd cattle against me. It's cool, I'm attracted to intelligence anyways. So I guess it's not a loss in the end.

Next you'll be saying I waited until you were sleep, right. Lol keep grasping.

But i think you lost your audience along time ago. All you have is that bandle Buddy's Place and Mata for commentary, but then again they could be one and the same for all I know.

Youre just proving to everyone though that i havent been lying, that my original post has been about your continued shit talking and ongoing harassment pertaining to this incident. Everyone clearly sees wtf I was talking about. It's honestly getting old as fuck. I'm just here to let you know, I'm no longer going to keep quiet about it, because in a way that's almost like protecting you. And why tf should I do that when after what you did, you still continue to harass me and talk shit.

If you think about me that much, to talk shit, check out my Twitter. Sounds like you miss me, the way you keep taunting and calling me back. But just like your friends, it's back to block mode, the whole lot of you- xo

Hmmm

Making assumptions there...
And you posted your dirty laundry in coed where everyone could comment, that's on you!

Take the advice or leave it I don't give a fuck.
If you feel you were raped press charges!
Otherwise you just look like some psychotic drama queen.
Who the fuck is going to want to see a chick that you've seen lose her fucking mind in a public forum?

Do you really think guys are going to want to fuck a chick that is damaged, and might scream rape on them, without pressing charges?

Slippery slope you have created for yourself. Originally Posted by rockerrick

I can see that you're not too bright seeing this is the first time she has claimed this and has a lot of reviews.
LV, let me know if you're ever in Kansas City as I would love to show you a good time

I can see you are clearly a wuss White Knight.
And what exactly does her amount of reviews have to do with her acting like a complete nutcase?
Since you're so fucking smart? :sarcasm:

Its a little to much drama for me. I can care less at this point if any of you believe this bat shit crazy paranoid bitch or not. PID is out. ( dropping the mic )