You do know the women we see are people outside the hobby, right? Have you really never made friends with a provider? I don't think it's just me, I've usually had a good connection with these ladies and have become friends with a few. Maybe it's marketing, but I don't think so. Of course I will always eventually schedule a session with my friends, but that's because I enjoy their company. And no, there are no off the clock dates, it's not like I'm pursuing a romantic relationship, it's just two people who care about each other keeping in touch.
Originally Posted by H.Hardhat
I've only made real friends with one provider. She has my personal number. She sends me random texts, even super hot photos, and I consider her a friend. She's not local. I appreciate it...she's good for conversation and what not. But she has her life and I have mine. Personally, I still feel a bit of shame at the fact that she knows I trick. I can't associate a lot of value to it because my family doesn't know her and I don't know her kids.
To me, one of the best relationships to have are the ones where people think highly of you. That's just me. Everybody's different. Say what you want but guys who pay for it aren't hardly hailed in a high light. Just look at how the mugshots are plastered of caught johns.
In short, I feel like a real world loser because I trick. Feeling super good about your out-of-session provider interactions is like talking highly of and appreciating your relationship with one of your prison inmates or prison guard. Sure, between yall there have been meaningful genuine exchanges, life encouraging conversations, etc.. but it's still your inmate/and or correctional officer/prison guard.