Serious question…Just Curious

Many of these issues are why I asked to be put in the massage category vs the escort one, being I don't offer 4 out of 5 escort activities.

I'm barely on the map in this business, but I run 2 of my own in RL, so I'm not going to offer anything I'm not comfortable with for any rate.

My pseudo boyfriend takes care of all the bills where we are both concerned, and I only pay for my business expenses and personal outside of what he provides.

I realize there's no way anyone is going to pay over X amount for what I offer here, so by default, my rates have to remain pretty low. I'll admit to having seen a few high end gals manage to get 500 without even offering FS, but I don't have the time or patience to be that charming in order to manipulate that. ��
I have this to say about the topic.

Gentlemen who disagree with my rates,I tell them it's not just me thinking I'm "All that" so pay me.... There is a demographic of men that I will not see and therefore I price myself above what they can afford. See where I'm going?
And if that isn't sufficient explanation, I tell them that the next time they are in Walmart, (because apparently they only pay rollback prices) every female over 21 is a client. Then I tell them to find the most unpleasant one. Then ask themselves how much would it take for them to roll her in flour, look for that wet spot, eat her out like they've never done before. Making her feel like the queen for the hour she paid for? How much for them to not throw up and be able to live with themselves?
Sorry for the graphic scenario, but new clients I meet, rarely do I know what they look like. So I never know what I'm gonna get.

I was told that 35 is like 55 in the sex trade. And since I'm 49 then I'm more like 85 and no 85 yr old is worth 350 an hour.
Well, there is an entire generation of 20-something guys who disagree. If I saw them I'd be sitting real good. Lol But since they're the same age as my kids,I have an issue with it personally.

In the end, it's up to you the hobbyist and your wallet, who you see. There is absolutely no reason to contact a provide just to tell her she is over priced. Just find someone else.

But to respond to one of Lias questions-
I think it's more likely they are mad that the provider is above their pay grade and after all she's a prostitute! Who, in many eyes, we are the bottom of the food chain.

Final word, NO ONE has the authority to tell a woman how much her self worth is, EVER!!!

💋💋 Originally Posted by MissK70116
Wow!! Your first paragraph is one of the reasons we have so much hatred in this world. You are crazy to think that every AA can’t afford your price & only seek roll back prices. It’s sad that people still have that mentality in 2023. I hope you find compassion in your heart to treat everyone equally someday. Thanks for speaking your truth. I wish nothing but the best for you.
Where did she say anything about race?

I took that to mean certain demographic referring to low ball idiots, not a particular race, but I could be mistaken. I've seen several high end ladies flat out say they will not price themselves in the average range that most people will pay, but that is for ALL races. They either want to do massage only or offer GFE for 500 plus to avoid the board guys was my understanding, and it wasn't exactly cryptic when they posted it.
All of her ads have a disclaimer that states No AA. I definitely understand pricing out the idiots.
All of her ads have a disclaimer that states No AA. I definitely understand pricing out the idiots. Originally Posted by Noname504
Ahh, I see.
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I am no way comparable to you or Lia though!! Originally Posted by DallasRain
I think I understand the premise of what you are saying. But I’m sure your being very humble in your own right. I think y’all 3 are vastly different and the type of experience you provide and clients y’all attract might be vastly different.

I guess in my hobby mindframe……

Out of all the ladies I have seen and continue to see. What didn’t matter to me as much was their rates, their looks (within reason of course), their website, their perceived board presence or online views (within reason of course).

For me what stands out is the intangibles. What they do for me (services). And how they make me feel. When those two are accomplished paying a fee no matter what it was wasn’t a problem.

Basically I choose by who was the (1) best fuq of the century and who do you feel as though you would see again even if hypothetically money wasn’t attached to it. Although we do know the importance of money in this exchange.

It would be the same for you ladies clients I’m sure. Not all are the same or comparable. A mixed bag. The things and benefit you give one versus another can be for a myriad of different reasons.

One client for example might be a guy who is portly, he comes on time, sees you frequently, pays without issue, sorta boring and never could do a dinner date, cums quick and never opts for msog, opts to please you as well during his time, and leaves timely so you can get to another client.

A second client might be a guy who is in great shape, takes you out for nice dinners, buys you gifts, he’s attractive, pays well and tips, uses the full extent of his time or hours for fun which tire you out more, but he comes a few minutes late from time to time and leaves past his time. He might not be a regular.

I think providers judge their clients on the whole. Same as prospective clients judge y’all.

So I think why those particular guys may be posting in threads is maybe because they are open enough to set an expectation for certain activities same as most ladies do with offered rates. We don’t have to abide by their expectation or agree to it, but even in this thread guys have stated they will bite their tongue and not speak upon it but behind closed doors discussed the golden pussy syndrome idea ad nauseaum.

Ladies don’t like seeing it in their reviews I get it. Guys don’t like paying top dollar for a less than stellar experience. They may be posting to have a discussion or set an expectation.similar to the lady who advertised gfe but doesn’t kiss or allow touching.
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All of her ads have a disclaimer that states No AA. I definitely understand pricing out the idiots. Originally Posted by Noname504
I didn’t take it as she was talking about race at all.

She was talking about the type of client similar to what KK said.

That’s a reach sir.

Not a far reach but indeed a top Walmart shelf item in the back………just get a stepstool by the houseware lol.