Guys who last very long, or too long

I've been told I'm unusual in that my penis (a word not heard often here...penis penis penis penis lol) stays rock hard after I cum for 10,15 minutes. I can't nut again unless it goes down for a little.
My first year hobbying I would fuck and fuck and fuck without cumming and at that time I couldn't cim so I had some frustrated providers.
Now I let it rip quick and laugh my ass off...personally I could eat pussy for days Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy

That happened to me a few times staying rock hard. yea u gotta let it rest before you go again.

+1 I love eating pussy I once had a session where thats all i did basically 15min of bbbj and 45min of daty. we were both extremely happy at the end

This cracks me up. Porn depicts guys who seem to last forever with a saucy orgasmic sex star before the cum shot. Women's and men's magazine articles talk about men who satisfy a lady best by taking a while before they cum. Be a gentleman and make the lady cum first, they advise. Then when a guy actually trains his kegels so he can take longer to cum, a lady partner comments, that he takes to long (this has happend to me three times in the past 10 months).

Thus, for different reasons than the OP's nervousness, how long is too long for a guy to cum? (Yes, I know it has to be less time than the session length.) Seriously, what is a good humpin' time range so most ladies can get into it, get theirs and enjoy the ride.......and I understand that switching positions often extends a guy's gruntin' O moment too.

My best guess: 4 to 10 min of good humpin' in a pleasurable position, and sometimes, depending on the emotional/sexual click, 15 to 20 min is the cat's multi-O Meow. Originally Posted by Invisible1

I agree...the emotional and sexual click dictates what is considered a "long" time to cum.

I took an hour to cum with the first provider I ever saw. I could've popped in 5 minutes. I kept holding it in. She told me not to do that anymore.

Last few times I haven't cum with a provider or in the RW. But then I go through phases where I'm done in 10 minutes.

The click is what matters for me. It's everything.

The click is what matters for me. It's everything. Originally Posted by boogbag

Agree 100%.

I'm not a young guy and I've had some injuries and medication that makes it so it takes an act of congress to get me to cum. And the way congress hasn't been doing shit the last few years, it's a great analogy.
I've been really appreciative of the professional ladies that have the patience and talent to treat me with kindness the way they do. My ex SO was not so kind or understanding.
I found communication is the solution to all problems and I have found some amazing providers who have worked out what works for me and the journey is to have a pleasurable experience all the way through the session, hopefully for both of us.
Most times I end up popping. And when I don't, I am disappointed. But, I have still had a great time.
If I am causing a lady discomfort, I will definitely not cum so I try very hard to be thoughtful.

I'm not a young guy and I've had some injuries and medication that makes it so it takes an act of congress to get me to cum. And the way congress hasn't been doing shit the last few years, it's a great analogy.
I've been really appreciative of the professional ladies that have the patience and talent to treat me with kindness the way they do. My ex SO was not so kind or understanding.
I found communication is the solution to all problems and I have found some amazing providers who have worked out what works for me and the journey is to have a pleasurable experience all the way through the session, hopefully for both of us.
Most times I end up popping. And when I don't, I am disappointed. But, I have still had a great time.
If I am causing a lady discomfort, I will definitely not cum so I try very hard to be thoughtful. Originally Posted by micktoz

I'm sorry your ex wasn't a good partner, but it sounds like you are in good hands with good understanding Providers.

Stop clinching your ass muscles. Just stroke in and out, without the kegel clinch. Years ago I had the terrible habit of 'holding it in', and sure enough, it made cumming a tedious process.

Gotta learn to relax and let it go, and try for MSOG.

Thank you, I get the gist of it now. For years I was under the impression from many sources that a man cumming early is a turn off to women, and the way most people have talked about premature ejaculation made it seem like there is something wrong with the man. Originally Posted by Gemineye

I dont believe in premature ejaculation.
I believe that the pussy is just too good.
It's the woman's fault for having "excessive pussy pleasuration"!

Ejaculation? What's that? What does it feel like? Why are we here? I forgot.

I dont believe in premature ejaculation.
I believe that the pussy is just too good.
It's the woman's fault for having "excessive pussy pleasuration"! Originally Posted by Jason Green

They that on your substantially younger civi girlfriend and see what sort of reaction you get.

Okay I understand it fully now that in the Provider/Client world, to last too long is not recommended, and does not impress. But what about in the real world with a real girlfriend your building a real special relationship with? Would she be impressed by long lasting stamina, or no?

Probably depends on the girl, wither she orgasms easily (or at all) through vaginal penetration, how long is "long", as well as other not easily defined or described aspects of your technique.

I used to see a provider whom I really enjoyed at first but when I enjoyed myself too long she started giving me that "porno" stare or would say "cum for me". She might as well have said "can you hurry the fuck up?". That just extended her misery.