Something I like to do is to take a sip of wine into my mouth, then head for my partner's lap. After I manage to get him where I want him, I then kinda suckle some air in so it swirls the wine all around the tip of a sensitive male area (like a sexy red wine spa for the penis, LOL)...can get messy, but great fun cleaning up and ya have to be careful not to suck too hard or there's a danger of choking.
That's never sexy...LOL
shhhh....ya'll don't tell anyone I told you that.