As mentioned both accounts are pretty similar. I will say that the lady has a whole lot to do with whether or not we can stay hard. Bad iop leads to a limp dick and strong iop leads to a hard dick. You two are obviously a bad fit. He's too aggressive and your iop is questionable.
Originally Posted by blowmypop23
Usually, but not always. I know for myself, when I have a pattern of eating too much junkfood, a stretch of lack of/minimal exercise, and chugging down a few drinks, I can tell by the strength, or lack thereof, of my erections. I've scheduled appointments after the above (not paying attention), with some of the finest ladies in the hobby, and the wood just won't cooperate, no matter how great her IOP. She's looking good, smelling good, enthusiastic...but NOOOPE.
Weak wood = weak fun, to no fault of hers.
If guys don't know this about themselves, then....well, you need to fucking know. I'll type it again. Shitty diet + lack of exercise = weak ass or nonexistent hardons. The older you get, the worse this can be.
Wise men should know this, which is why I make sure to try to eat better these days, and work out more.
As far as the OP goes, sorry this happened to you.