Why knock me for not doing bbbj

loveitdou's Avatar
I AM ABSOLUTELY NOT LOOKING DOWN ON YOU ABOUT CBJ--
THAT IS YOUR CHOICE AND YOUR RIGHT!

just not mine.

Carry on!
strongbad's Avatar
Is that on the Barney Stinson scale?
Everyone?really?
Cbj/non-greek/anti-dfk/no daty providers..i'm sure all of them get a couple of guys trying to 'convert' them

Again...a couple of guys..certainly not everyone

Just ignore them and conduct your business as you see fit
The only GFE im worried about is me putting my dick inside the girl and having sex with the lady. Getting the girls treasure box and Making her mine . Thats what we pay for.
kinkyorca's Avatar
As long as you state it first and not mislead. It would be suck to show up thinking your going to get bbbj only to find out its cbj. Thats would be my only problem. Other then that , its your choice.
As long as you state it first and not mislead. It would be suck to show up thinking your going to get bbbj only to find out its cbj. Thats would be my only problem. Other then that , its your choice. Originally Posted by kinkyorca
totally agree with shamoooo...I don't want a CBJ provder....at the 200 dollar level....
I've met many people who tell me they can't tell the difference (and I'm a bbbj person), so I think a lot of variables are at work. I know people who can just look at a condom and then it all goes south, but not everyone is like that, so you can't just say someone's been lying to her Spiceyone, lol.

PS, I think this is a coed topic.



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~ Originally Posted by Lexieinhouston
If they tell you they can't tell the difference then it's because you don't know how to suck a dick correctly..
If they tell you they can't tell the difference then it's because you don't know how to suck a dick correctly.. Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe
true.... but she can care for her stray cats....poor cat lady.........
Wakeup's Avatar
If you don't do BBBJ, what extraordinary skill do you have to make up for the fact that you're a fat chick?
chicagoboy's Avatar
Who was knocking the OP?
citizen44's Avatar
If you don't do BBBJ, what extraordinary skill do you have to make up for the fact that you're a fat chick? Originally Posted by Wakeup
Why should she have to make up for anything? You've never added anything to make up for always acting like an asshole.

Why does everyone look down on me for not offering bbbj. Originally Posted by awesomeash24
It's not looking down on you, it's called only paying for the experience you want. Only do what you're comfortable with. That said, I would pass on CBJ also.
pyramider's Avatar
Does the OP do BBCR?
Does the OP do BBCR? Originally Posted by pyramider
No, she only does BBCCR....



So tell me.... does your ear notice a difference when they're covered?

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lol

(I KID, I KID)
Seriously, it IS her choice....
As is all of our own "choices."
Your choice is yours alone.
Not mine.
Or a lot of men's.
But some people do prefer a lesser chance of shit happening.
Can't say as I blame her.




I just like what I like, that's my only excuse...
bojulay's Avatar
Not a knock on you, but your bio says 100% GFE, and almost every guy on Eccie agrees bbbj is the most important activity of GFE. So it's setting you off on the wrong foot. There are plenty of cbj providers that get good business despite the beliefs of the majority of Eccie guys, but they don't claim to be GFE. Originally Posted by pink taco
GFE originally was about attitude and the ambiance of being as if you were
with a real girlfriend, more than just a concentration on specific services
provided. Why you get girls that are very mechanical in their performance but
have open menus and call themselves GFE

Somewhere or other it got relegated to just services offered.
More is the pity.



Why does everyone look down on me for not offering bbbj I understand that it is offered a lot on here but me personally I do not like offering any kind of bare services till I have an established relationship with a client. I have never had any complaints about my cbj amd have been told even with condoms I have one of the best mouths in the south. Do any other girls have this problem because I'm feeling like I'm the only one?????
I don't think I should be knocked for looking out for my safety. Originally Posted by awesomeash24
Yeah, don't do anything you are uncomfortable with, if how you handle
your business works for you then stick with it and don't let anyone talk
you into something else. A person has to maintain ownership of their own
autonomy in this world. Don't let anyone take that away from you.
bojulay's Avatar
Uhhh... hate to tell you taco, but you'd be wrong on that, lol. There is GFE without bbbj. You guys can't brow beat anyone into bbbj if they don't want to and it especially pisses me off when 40 or 50 year old guys try that with young twenty-something new girls.

So, see her or or not...up to you, but you do not decide if she is GFE along with CBJ & yeah...you're a newbie too taco.


~ Originally Posted by Lexieinhouston
You are correct. Somewhere along the way GFE has gotten relegated to just
specific services offered, when originally it was about attitude and the feeling
of being with an actual girlfriend. That is why there are providers that have
open menus and call themselves GFE and are very mechanical at the same
time.