20 years old, First time with a provider, well... it was soo embarrassing

What no MSOG, should of sucked on those " Boobies " till junior stood up again in five minutes and got right back up on the horse.
Originally Posted by nwhoustontx

HA!! Yeah...at his age, he should've glazed her like a fresh dipped donut and bent her over for the Bugs Bunny treatment. LMAO

young, dumb, and full of cum. Go get a teenage girl, they give it away for free

If you are 20 and only good for one shot, you need to either forget this
arena or move to Dallas ! Typical male at that age..good for 3-4 bells, so at this rate...by 30 you are toast.

Despite the availability of free civilian pussy at your age, I started hobbying much earlier than you. That being said, during the first few encounters with a professional escort, I can see where nerves could get the best of you.
When I first started hobbying, there were no review boards. You had no idea what you were walking into. I have to admit, I probably didn't perform at my best for fear of a pimp with a revolver popping out of a closet at any moment.
You might want to consider the following for your next few encounters. Again, stick with well reviewed providers. If you are going to have a mid afternoon or evening encounter, clean the pipes early that morning. Unless you have a real issue with premature ejaculation, you should be fine by afternoon. Another tip, and this may sound a little extreme for someone your age, if you could get you hands on Viagra, or perhaps a well proven OTC ED supplement, take a portion of one maybe an hour and a half before the session. (You can find a few good threads on this site about OTC supplements.)
I know you don't really need an ED supplement at your age, but no matter how much anxiety you are experiencing, losing an erection won't be one of your worries. After a couple of more encounters, you should feel at ease with the process.

I was 22 when I visited my first pro (still in my 20s). I don't call them often but for me at least... its more of fantasy visiting a pornstar.. and well these girls are paid for there services so this closest i'll get. The active ones just cost more then I am willing to pay. Also, girls in my life come and go.... sometimes it is dry .

I am surprised you popped so fast. My first time with a working girl I literally had sex for 1 hour before I went limp... didn't even finish lol. Honestly, I have never been able to finish within an hour. Yet, I set myself up for hour sessions... every time knowing this. The last girl I seen on here.. she made me finish myself... disappointed but at the sametime that was the first I manage to pop with a provider. But hey I been practicing with my self my whole life daily (sex addict). Every time I am about to cum I go limp. Then get hard rinse and repeat. I should of became a porn stud (lol not).

Keep knocking them down... I know I plan too but some of these providers I feel should be paying me (jk). Also man use your head don't go in these girls raw. That was huge mistake I made with a stripper a couple years ago... The regret and anxiety I had after that experience... lucky came out std free but man I will never do that again (suicide but man that still to this day the best fuck I ever had lol). Was drunk young and dumb... just some tips.. be safe

Fucking just ain't that hard...You are overthincking shit!

Also man use your head don't go in these girls raw. That was huge mistake I made with a stripper a couple years ago... The regret and anxiety I had after that experience... lucky came out std free but man I will never do that again (suicide but man that still to this day the best fuck I ever had lol). Was drunk young and dumb... just some tips.. be safe Originally Posted by Relax_alittle

LOL, Thanks for the advise man, it really helps! and I have a question, by saying don't go in girls raw, do you mean don't do anything like bbbj or daty?

No, he means don't penetrate the vagina without a condom.

It's ok bro. You've got time to work it out. Find a nice newbie friendly provider and book her. Take it slow...

My first P4P opportunity came at age 21 when someone on a porn message board was hipping guys to this hole in the wall s-club where OTC was as easy as taking the girl out of the club to your car, driving to a nearby 5th ward shit hole motel, and handle your business.

The two times I did it all went well. 28 was my first experience with a real "provider" and even at that point it was still surreal to me what was going on b/c we met in a parking lot, I gave her my TXDL, she had me follow her to her apartment, and outside of her telling me to place my 160 on the dresser - the experience felt very much like a real life one night stand hook up. The provider was hot but within my demographic zone so it felt real.

LOL, Thanks for the advise man, it really helps! and I have a question, by saying don't go in girls raw, do you mean don't do anything like bbbj or daty? Originally Posted by Ace9393

Like Ice said I meant do not go in pussy w/o a condom. Believe it or not I been offered unprotected sex from many strippers (where I prefer to play) in the club/vip. Lately though, seems to strip club scene is dying from what it was 3-4+ years ago when I first moved to Houston. So I been leaning on seeing providers when I am up for it... and have some extra cash but scheduling with them is so... When I am horny ..I am ready to go when I call... not days later *shrugs*. Thats why I prefer clubs where I can actually see them in person and choose the hottest girls when I want. Not to mention some people just aren't photogenic and look better in person.... also ofc dated pics and fake pics/photoshop is something you may encounter.

If your looking GFE type stuff stick with escorts. Me I don't want to talk too much...as it easy to get attach ... even when I originally called just for a nut (Remember even if she likes you... you'll always be a trick but I can understand why older gents like GFE). I only seen one eccie provider and of course bareback wasn't discussed. However, I am sure its only matter of time before some one offers this for extra again/ also have read reviews on here when I was a premium member... where its been mention (but id imagine in most cases it wouldn't make the review lol). Use your head and kindly decline which is a lot harder (no pun intended) to do when you're actually in the moment . Condoms do not protect from all stds (hello herpes, this is why I like clean shaven! even then you never know.. unless you see it in the outbreak stages/ If she had it I doubt she would tell you as it would hurt her business so.... hopefully she is treating it to try avoid infecting clients/ofc condoms reduces odds but doesn't cover your entire gnetials/ bbbj are good fun but ya... Even if I am tempted so far I never kiss or daty them (well there was 1 exception but she wouldn't let me eat box... only consider cause she was that pretty)/ if I am paying its more about me then her *cowgirl* :P) ... so either way I would be wary on who I actually see and thats only one of the many concerns and risks.
(Notice a lot of girl use different/multiple sites so be sure to check more then just eccie...)

I will never forget how embarrassed I was the first time I had sex!
And there was no absolutely no reason.
I was the only one there.

Fucking just ain't that hard...You are overthincking shit! Originally Posted by boardman

Over thinking *correction*

boardman spelled overthinck correctly.

boardman spelled overthinck correctly. Originally Posted by pyramider

This is some mildly entertaining reading for a Saturday morn, thancks folcks

Lol usual case of the fucktards.... Lmao.... Have a great weekend miserable fuckers with wives who hate you!!!