Are Providers okay with hobbyist leaving after you open the door

^^^^^^ Those are nice words Fancy.




I do too.....might as well come clean.....for the ladies to decide.



Click here for my selfie.


. Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

Damn. You are hot.

It would be interesting if all the hobbyist had to post a picture on their p411 or Eccie profile. I suspect there are a lot of dudes who would find that lots of providers all the sudden became constantly overbooked. Originally Posted by citizen44

I'd take the ugliest bastard and introduce him to this hot ass pussy.. ijs

Now THAT would be PRICELESS, especially for the biggest sh*t talkers. A full body shot so that we may judge height/weight ratio (for those who aren't aware yet) and be reminded of the visual every time they bully someone Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO

love it! I would rather the shit talkers! Mostly to prove they have nothing to brag about!

So I know providers hide their face for safety, discretion, or because they know they really aren't that attractive, etc.. My question is this.. If a hobbyists takes the chance on coming to meet you based on your photo shopped body pics, but when he gets to the door and he sees what is behind it and wants to throw up, are you okay with him leaving? Also, do you expect the hobbyist to reimburse you for a no-tel charge? Originally Posted by creamofthecrop

Nobody likes their time wasted, but better to just let it be known you will pass than to have a shitty review that you get poked and picked at!

I'd take the ugliest bastard and introduce him to this hot ass pussy ... Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne

The hobby wisdom of a millennium condensed into a handful of words. Beautiful.

(Have you considered starting a hobby blog?)

Damn. You are hot. Originally Posted by Pristy N

All the girls love me. I usually show up with one or both of my brothers. We're triplets.

I spend a lot of time window shopping to avoid these kinds of situations. If she totally misrepresented herself (and it's a full on B&S) I would be forced to walk even though I'd be nice about it. In such a case I'd be disappointed for the wasted time but I'd end up just charging it to the game as they say.

This is precisely why truth in advertising is vital in any industry. When expectations do not match reality, disappointment can have an over all negative effect on any encounter.

I have not had this happen to me, HOWEVER - if someone were to find themselves unattracted to me for ANY reason, I would hope that they be honest and upfront about it, and do us both the favor of leaving prior to any hanky-panky.
I would hope that they would offer me the same opportunity, as well.



Chemistry is terribly important in forging a passionate connection. Attraction can be influenced by any number of things; it is my belief that the best experiences are imbued with both. Anything less, and the parties involved are just going through the motions.

There is, of course, a right and a wrong way to extricate yourself from a less than desirable encounter; I prefer the honeyed approach (rather than vinegar). A simple, "I'm sorry, I hate to waste your time, but this will not work for me," should do, without flinging insults or vitriol. Alternatively, you could check your cell phone, feign concern, and say, "It looks like there's an emergency back at the office I have to take care of. I've got to go back right now; I'm sorry to have wasted your time."

It is up to the lady in question whether she may require a cancellation fee, and you may potentially have an issue on your hands negotiating your way out the door, but I truly feel that if you don't want to be there, then you shouldn't stay. Originally Posted by Amelia Sterling

I think these are all good suggestions ! Gotta love a woman that uses words like hanky-panky

I suppose if most of the hobbyists on here were "hot" ... they wouldn't pay for it ... so a provider can be selective in her customer base, but she'll need to meet that standard. And if the hobbyists is "hot" .. .then he can be selective also.

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I have not had this happen to me, HOWEVER - if someone were to find themselves unattracted to me for ANY reason, I would hope that they be honest and upfront about it, and do us both the favor of leaving prior to any hanky-panky.
I would hope that they would offer me the same opportunity, as well.

Chemistry is terribly important in forging a passionate connection. Attraction can be influenced by any number of things; it is my belief that the best experiences are imbued with both. Anything less, and the parties involved are just going through the motions.
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Have you ever not gone through with a session and if so for what reason on your end.

Have you ever not gone through with a session and if so for what reason on your end. Originally Posted by Phil A.Cheaux

I've sent a few gentleman callers right back out the door, but my reasons were based on their mental health, rather than their looks. I would rather drink a cup of coffee or read a good book during that free time than put myself in any danger.

It would be interesting if all the hobbyist had to post a picture on their p411 or Eccie profile. I suspect there are a lot of dudes who would find that lots of providers all the sudden became constantly overbooked. Originally Posted by citizen44

Me thincks there wouldn't be too many fucktards on eccie or p411 if a pic was a requirement.

Works for me...I have some on my P411 profile


To the OP, it's hard out there in the hobby for a face guy.... Originally Posted by DickEmDown

A face pick DeD not a pics of your junk.

There is no number for the amount of fucks I give about what a hooker thinks of my physical appearance. Zero would be the closest, but doesn't quite cover how "nothing" it is.

Wow Amy, GREAT avatar!

I have to agree FancyinHeels - However guys please understand... That goes both ways. I have had 2 men lie to me last week about age and nationality just to get me over there. So if you want women to be truthful with you then you got to be truthful with us. And I do believe there definitely is a better way of getting that point across without bashing people like you did. Just saying

Really? Do you actually think any provider with a "photo shopped body pic" is going to respond to this at all, much less truthfully, or are you just complaining to the clouds? (Irish expression for blowing off steam.) Considering the rude way you worded it, "... he sees what is behind it (the door) and wants to throw up...," this thread's going to serve no purpose but to be another guy gripe fest with little female input and zilch positive feedback.

Enderwiggin, despite his less-than-tactful comment, is correct. If the provider doesn't look her photos, walk. Who CARES what she thinks if she is advertising deceitfully? And she would be nuts to expect a room reimbursement under false pretenses.

Pour the next whine, please. Originally Posted by Fancyinheels