strippers or escorts? ??

Escorting is the more honest profession. Strippers whole thing is to empty your wallet as quickly as possible. While the exchange of money happens in escorting, in escorting one pretty much knows what he is getting.

There's an old saying about strippers. You won't get laid but you will get fucked. Escorts every time for me. Originally Posted by burkalini

Very true : )

I think the respect and disrespect part happens alot for women in general-even in the tie and coat world of corporate- for me it is about how I think and act combined with how the lady thinks and acts- not if she is a stripper or provider - that determines the the class/respectability.

FNF, do you see SCs as a place to "score"? I'm a bit curious. I'll admit that after 30 years, I still haven't figured out the SC scene. I have always believed that P4P was available at SCs or from the dancers off site. After reading some anecdotal stories, I firmly believe favors are more the norm than what most would think, but I think you are dead-on with you comment about bringing your "A" game and that SCs are a battle ground. I think with the SC, it is more the thrill of the hunt than anything else. I also think like any hunt, there is a lot of time, effort and money spent on landing a stripper. The way I figure it; one can't simply expect to walk in off the street and take home a stripper in one evening (unless his name is Pacman Jones and he makes it "rain" ). I think it would take multiple trips to the club to get a feel for the girls. Eventually, one will have to spend money on drinks, dances, etc. Heck, you might be $200-300 or more into the hole before even having a solid prospect. Then if you are lucky, you might find one open to carnal suggestions. At that point, it is a crap shoot. The menu might not be to your liking. Girl has GPS. A myriad of other unknowns enter the equation. For the truly adventurous, I can see the thrill of trying the SC scene. Heck, it might be nice just as a thing to mark off the monger bucket list. FNF, I'd really like to hear more of your insight into the SC scene. It sounds like you have some experience. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

It all depends on how you approach it. If a girl is open it will not take long to figure it out. If you keep seeing a woman in a club she will eventually give it up but that is only because she fears you are about to loose interest and she wants to keep you coming back to the club.

key interaction in the first 5 seconds when a woman asks you "So what do you like to do?" Don't tell her about sports or your stamp collection. Key word is play

You say she goes the extra mile in VIP, What is the difference than ?In reality she is just a faster usually cheap quick way to get off . I think it is much more dangerous doing guys in a VIP than through the hobby where you can be screened , know what they like and talk to ladies who saw them before . In the club you are dealing with someone usually drunk , and they can maybe get violent .She is just trying to sound better than you which she is not. I have worked in clubs and private parties with the so called girls who will never do appts at rooms but will do almost everything in a bathroom for 1/4 of what they would make in a hour the hobby ,I guess what ever makes them feel good !

I would say the entire idea of moral superiority is pretty dubious. What's really going on is there is always someone that needs to disparage others to feel better about themselves.

I spend a lot of time with strippers....they are not in a rush and if you go to the right place you can get to know them enjoy a little more of a companion. I have sex with some but far from all. ON the other hand it is all sexually oriented and i see very little reason to split hairs and think about some sort of superiority.

The real questions are what does the guy want and what is the girl ok with. "Better' is a bullshit conversation to me.

CP, I am by no way the best at the SC scene, but I have 4 girls that I see on a regular basis. They are all hot and they are all spinners. My problem is that they all came from the same SC and man you want to see cat fights. One girl charged another girl on stage over me and I ain't no movie star or Bill Gates. I am now deeply involved in the girls lives. I know their families, and even they call me. The one who has lived with me 3 times hasn't danced in over a year, and she was at the bar and introduced herself to me out of the blue. I am going to dinner with my brunette in a few minutes, and we are getting super close. I very seldom got dances and the girls basically just hung around with me in the club.

Strippers are to the sex industry what used car salesman are to the automobile industry.

Strippers are to the sex industry what used car salesman are to the automobile industry. Originally Posted by Jackie S

So does that make Hookers the mechanics of the sex industry?

I have always said there is a fine line between stripping and escorting.......

catch 22.....both are in the same game....just different players. all after the same ending....to win or in this case....to be paid. sadly one trying to judge the other for same sport.

I agree. Why would she feel she's more "respectable", especially when you said she goes the "extra mile" willingly? That just means she dances around naked in front of a bunch of guys until someone pays enough for her to blow him? That seems worse, to me. When I see my provider, it's a private thing, and I'm generally the only one that night.

I think it is a question of deniability. Some strippers don't put out with customers, giving all of them the right to say they don't.

I used to dance but I hated it. I hated having to lie. I suck at teasing. Being an escort is so much better on my poor feet anyway!