I just wanna kno guys

I don’t mind the dead fucks so much....

I can appreciate a guy who works his ass off at his job,takes care of his family and then can’t even get a good bj or some ass once in awhile ...

Come right on over and get in my bed and just lay there...you deserve it , however atleast let me know somehow someway you’re enjoying it. I suppose if you weren’t you might not be paying me. I’ve literally stopped my bj and asked are you even enjoying this ...cause it’s hard as hell to tell and if you aren’t enjoying yourself neither can I honestly. There is a certain level of pleasure I get just from pleasing my partner.

There are ways to communicate to your partner that you’re enjoying what they do...body language ( squirms, shivers,quivers, sheet grabbing, head pushing lol), verbal communication is great ( oh yea right there, just like that, omg that feels good, don’t stop ect)

Gotta be open to communicating with your sexual partner and sometimes trying new things...

Just a sidenote....kissing ...that always turns me on...nothing like making out like teenagers !!! Originally Posted by Analeese

Exactly i stopped twice asking him gus he ok does he enjoy he was looking mean n disgusted i kno i aint ugly he gave a crazy look n dragged on ... Come on dude i tried several times to liven up atmosphere. Whatever

This is my last week on ECCIE!!!!!

Just like AG said, the fact is, the guys are the ones who are paying and their wishes trump what a provider wants from a session. Providers do screening to determine what they are comfortable with, that is the main reason why I let them all know either by my completely filled out p411 profile and also through PM/talk/text/email. I would think that it would be better than having to read my mind and what is good about doing that is either she or I can eliminate further communication for an appointment.

If for any reason a provider cannot leave her problems outside the door before BCD or any other excuse to underwhelm, then she needs to cancel. But, if a provider says everything is comfortable and she accepts the appointment and my money, then does not perform and give 100%, then she should expect a bad review or at least intel about my experience with her through back channels. Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

OH BABY I DID MY PART. MAYBE I WASNT HIS TYPE

Technically I agree with what AG said in post #2 and there are many who feel that way. I can only speak for myself, but if I feel my companion for the hour is uncomfortable with me then it’s hard for me to be comfortable also. I try to do my part to make her as comfortable as possible by treating her with respect and not like a piece of meat.
I can’t always tell the difference between IOP and real passion, and it really doesn’t matter that much to me, but I do know that if she is comfortable with me it’s much easier and natural for passion or IOP to flow. And that will usually have me making return visits.

This is my last week on ECCIE!!!!! Originally Posted by Misty S

Why?

I want my provider to be comfortable and to enjoy herself as well. I have no interest in sex with someone who isn’t enjoying it or at least a damn good actor in making me believe they’re enjoying. I want passion in my experiences whether I’m paying for it or not. Otherwise, it really is no different for me than rubbing one out.

Comfort for the lady equals more enjoyment for me.

I don’t mind the dead fucks so much....

I can appreciate a guy who works his ass off at his job,takes care of his family and then can’t even get a good bj or some ass once in awhile ...

Come right on over and get in my bed and just lay there...you deserve it , however atleast let me know somehow someway you’re enjoying it. I suppose if you weren’t you might not be paying me. I’ve literally stopped my bj and asked are you even enjoying this ...cause it’s hard as hell to tell and if you aren’t enjoying yourself neither can I honestly. There is a certain level of pleasure I get just from pleasing my partner.

There are ways to communicate to your partner that you’re enjoying what they do...body language ( squirms, shivers,quivers, sheet grabbing, head pushing lol), verbal communication is great ( oh yea right there, just like that, omg that feels good, don’t stop ect)

Gotta be open to communicating with your sexual partner and sometimes trying new things...

Just a sidenote....kissing ...that always turns me on...nothing like making out like teenagers !!! Originally Posted by Analeese

I agree.

OH BABY I DID MY PART. MAYBE I WASNT HIS TYPE Originally Posted by Misty S

Here is the difference between the guys and the ladies:

If a lady is not really enjoying herself for whatever reason, but she is getting paid to cater to a man's wants and desires and as I said previously, she has screened him to be comfortable enough to see him and take his money, then she can fake it, that is why it is called IOP. And depending upon how real feeling the IOP is to him, not what the provider thinks, so is his review of her, the providing of intel on her and more importantly, the next time she gets contacted for another appointment by that same client.

For guys, it does not matter if he is not a moaner, says much or if he is laying there relaxing in the moment without too much movement,(especially during a BBBJ, although in most of the MPCFS positions, he is doing most of the movements anyway, that is why IMO, a provider's vocal ability comes into focus during that time), it is the actual body language (getting a full erection and staying hard) that speaks volumes louder than any spoken words do, as does his kissing. If a guy is not enjoying himself, he flat out, no pun intended, cannot get it up, there is really no faking that.

I want my provider to be comfortable and to enjoy herself as well. I have no interest in sex with someone who isn’t enjoying it or at least a damn good actor in making me believe they’re enjoying. I want passion in my experiences whether I’m paying for it or not. Otherwise, it really is no different for me than rubbing one out.

Comfort for the lady equals more enjoyment for me. Originally Posted by pistol shot

I agree with this.

I once heard a Preacher on the radio describing sex, and how people overrate sexuality.. he said from a Man's perspective, it's simply a recurring need, no different from using the toilet.

while I kind of get that, LOL, I think masturbation is more like using the bathroom.. a partner elevates sex to something much greater.. hopefully.

Why? Originally Posted by BLM69

LOL I suspect the usual. You know, shit like how she is too busy making fat stacks to deal with all us mean ECCIE dudes.



Over in Austin coed a lady named Jellybean showed a good way of dealing with a NO review. Now we have this as another example of how NOT to deal with a bad review. It does more harm than good.

LOL I suspect the usual. You know, shit like how she is too busy making fat stacks to deal with all us mean ECCIE dudes.



Over in Austin coed a lady named Jellybean showed a good way of dealing with a NO review. Now we have this as another example of how NOT to deal with a bad review. It does more harm than good. Originally Posted by Brandofan

I figured after reading the subject that it was damaged control of a upcoming encounter report, it would of been better to move on to the next encounter instead of focusing on this one, insulting and telling everybody here how bad the trick was can't be good

Honestly if I have my dick in my left hand and the money that I am having to PAID in my right hand, I am not that concerned if the provider is enjoying the session or not, I’m sure when she gets the money, that is the most pleasant thing about the session for her. Just my two cents, Happy Hunting Gals and Guys!!!

If the beautiful lady is not enjoying being with me or with my efforts to please her, than there is nothing in it for me and it turns into just going through the motions and hoping to be able to finish. However it normally ends up with no release and sometimes a lose of the ability to even perform. Daty all the way through her big O is the absolute best...

I really do care about the provider having a good time, but for me it is up to the provider to be welcoming and to make me comfortable enough that i open up and give back to them. It doesn't take much, just being a little friendly via text/pm/phonecall then smiling and seeming happy when i arrive.
Of all the encounters i have had the ones that were the very best did those things. Made me feel good and interested in making a connection with them. The mediocre to bad sessions offered none of that.

I really do care about the provider having a good time, but for me it is up to the provider to be welcoming and to make me comfortable enough that i open up and give back to them. It doesn't take much, just being a little friendly via text/pm/phonecall then smiling and seeming happy when i arrive.
Of all the encounters i have had the ones that were the very best did those things. Made me feel good and interested in making a connection with them. The mediocre to bad sessions offered none of that. Originally Posted by GenieLamp

They usually come back to their senses after punching the clock for a few weeks and getting home with swollen feet that being friendly and faking it isn't that bad after all, almost forgot to mention the little check they've earned for all those hours at a RW job.

That's why the 1/2 visit was invented. You meet n greet and maybe repeat if you both clicked . I'm an old ugly man and know everybody won't click with me and vice versa and we haven't wasted a lot of each other's time