It's all about breathing and trust. The couple in the video obviously knew each other well, or he could have really hurt her.
When you feel like you are going to suffocate, you start to feel anxiety which will result in painful gagging, sometimes so bad you can feel it in your stomach. The secret is learning how to hold a cock as deep as you can without gagging and learn to breath normally around it and through your nose. He can not be doing anything except be a willing participant while you train yourself. Then when you feel relaxed and comfy, breathing normally while the cock still in your mouth, straighten your throat by sticking out your jaw, make sure that you are positioned so that the curve of the cock can go down your throat, breath in deeply and let the cock slide down your throat, come right back up and hold the cock in your mouth, exhale and inhale until you trust that you won't suffocate. Your throat will begin to lubricate itself with the best natural lube imaginable making you either want to spit or swallow it, The guys would rather watch it drip down your chin in between your breasts to be used as a russian lube later, keep that in mind before spitting it out or swallowing it all. Practice makes perfect and the learning process give the gent time to savor the experience without the pressure to pop or pop you, while also teasing him because he can't come with such little stimulation, but oh, will he enjoy watching.
But in a nut shell, it starts with breathing to ease your fear of suffocation which will allow you to relax. Soooo, a girl who gets trained by me will fear no force until she's controlled her gag reflex and her breathing to my satisfaction. Originally Posted by TaylorMaiden29
def would be a fun skill to learn