Well, you're welcome to "truly believe" whatever you want to, but in reality that does not confer any credibility whatsoever to what you believe.
I have seen children from the same family receive the same treatment from the same parents and yet turn out to be totally opposite from each other. How can that be?
. . . Parents can guide children in the early years, but then people create themselves and their lives by their own choices. Good or bad.
Originally Posted by Fast Gunn
FG ,
Not to color the world...imperfect, but it it quite literally impossible to treat all
Children the same. Even within the same family. No two human relationships are alike. Not all lessons are taught the same to every child, different discussions occur between different kids. So, even in the same nuclear unit , it is quite impossible to treat everyone the same , or to even love them the same way.
Everyone has a child that needs a little bit more attention than the other/s.
This is a differing dynamic between two separate relationships with
resources (time ,love etc) being allocated in disproportionate rates, regardless of how diligently you attempt to be "fair and equal".
How this and other dynamics are perceived through the prism of the beholders eye is entirely subjective to the unique dynamic of each family
Unit. As are the effects of such unintentional Inequity .
As a father , I have had moments where I realized that I was being more available to one child over another. Wether due to
Scheduling or illness or lending my assistance with school projects and such.
I think most parents have had moments like this as well.
The best we can do is our "best we can do".
Ultimately , it is my charge and my duty to guide and influence my children with
All of the love, skill and luck I can muster to produce a better human than myself. I DO take full responsibility for the actions of my offspring.. As I have had a major role in shaping who they are and.... HOW THEY ACT!
Thanks for reading.