NC/NS Lindzey Legend broke my cherry

How is it that I was acting like a lost puppy. I attempted to make contact, yes several times, hoping to make the appointment. When it was over, I did my duty as a member of this board and made this post. SHE then made contact with me, wanting to meet me and offered me options. I contacted her about the options and all of a sudden I am an asshole. Other board members wanted to know how things turned out and I did just that. There was not excessive attempts on my part to contact her. Being that this is the first time I have been NCNS I feel I have been quite successful/lucky in this hobby.

I feel your only purpose for posting as you did was to ilicit a negative response, contributing nothing of value. I will no longer dignify any response from you, as it has no bering on how I function in this community.

I respect you don. It's cynicism from your choices, but i would contend that's not really the term I would use. I would simply call it experience. It's just an understanding of human nature from various life and work encounters. When someone doesn't want to keep his/her appt with you, of course they are not going to respond even if you burst your lungs yelling. At some point a wise man would fold his cards and walk away. I am simply contending here that the op was way over this line and should have stopped behaving like a lost puppy long ago. No malicious intent here, just that I find a straight-up, no BS assessment is much healthier here. Originally Posted by Asianhobbyist

Fair enough, maybe we're semi-understanding one another...Perhaps in error, I do believe some of the Captain's motivation in attempting to contact the girl was motivated by concern for her well-being...same old story, you start out scared for someone's safety and end up pissed over their lack of common courtesy.

My zero tolerance policy for ns/nc works for me; largely due to reports like the Captain's they are extraordinary events; over an eleven year period of whoring I've had the grand total of one...altho I had been willing to haul this particular whore off the excluded list if she had kept her promise to him.

How is it that I was acting like a lost puppy. I attempted to make contact, yes several times, hoping to make the appointment. When it was over, I did my duty as a member of this board and made this post. SHE then made contact with me, wanting to meet me and offered me options. I contacted her about the options and all of a sudden I am an asshole. Other board members wanted to know how things turned out and I did just that. There was not excessive attempts on my part to contact her. Being that this is the first time I have been NCNS I feel I have been quite successful/lucky in this hobby. Originally Posted by CaptainMastPole

Fair enough, maybe we're semi-understanding one another...Perhaps in error, I do believe some of the Captain's motivation in attempting to contact the girl was motivated by concern for her well-being...same old story, you start out scared for someone's safety and end up pissed over their lack of common courtesy.

My zero tolerance policy for ns/nc works for me; largely due to reports like the Captain's they are extraordinary events; over an eleven year period of whoring I've had the grand total of one...altho I had been willing to haul this particular whore off the excluded list if she had kept her promise to him. Originally Posted by Don T. Lukbak

I got zero tolerance for ncns as wel, or similar bullshit with civilian dating, that's why it amazes me how some guys can actually not get a hint. I mean come on what she did was basically a major. "Fuck off." If a provider is worth her salt, she would have responded before the 2nd call or even gave him a message or text before the 1st call. Like what many have said, he should have had a backup plan. Regardless, keep calling after that does make the op look foolish, and he should have known better.

I got zero tolerance for ncns as wel, or similar bullshit with civilian dating, that's why it amazes me how some guys can actually not get a hint. I mean come on what she did was basically a major. "Fuck off." If a provider is worth her salt, she would have responded before the 2nd call or even gave him a message or text before the 1st call. Like what many have said, he should have had a backup plan. Regardless, keep calling after that does make the op look foolish, and he should have known better. Originally Posted by Asianhobbyist