Seems to me that a truly concerned gentleman would have sent a private message with his “advice” rather than publicly providing “constructive criticism.” I mean, isn’t that the point of his advice: Keep things private, don’t air it here?
Originally Posted by BNF2
Great you send the message and let me know the response you get. Your fine with these continued posts or the ones guys keep getting after they've seen someone requesting financial help, great. Enjoy. As I've already said I posted because this is NOT an isolated incident, or one only involving this provider but it becomes more prevalent every day. My apologies for commenting. I'm sure if you contact the OP she'd be happy to take your donation though.
Originally Posted by KCFalcon77
Am honest attempt to give constructive criticism would have been a PM. Apparently you knew this would be unwelcome, so you decided to do it publicly instead.
A general statement to all ladies about this behavior could have been a single post. And it didn't need to be a reply to an individual providers ad. You're using polite words, but think about what you're doing man. You're not being "Mr tactful constructive criticism to help a small business owner."