Dear_John:
You can tell we are both veteran mongers/posters by the underline in our names.
Although I am generally not a fan of fake tiddies, I think I would make an exception for you pink Avatar lady.
Originally Posted by Alpha_Male
About my avatar girl, I flew over to Russia to visit with her and she told me they were real.
Back to more serious stuff, and there is no doubt you also know this. Here are two of unwritten rules for the guys here.
There were times socials got a bit wild, especially if there were held at a persons home or swingers club. Guys would get a freebie or get an intimate introduction to a lady. The one unwritten rule was that you didn't talk about it, plus you would visit her in a normal paid session and write a review about your session. Chances are better than good she would become a regular because she reached out to you at a social, so you felt like she treated you special and your paid session was also a great one. Again, you kept your mouth shut. Now if someone posted about some social was epic or something like that, you may post that you agree with them that it was a great social. You may say something like "I met a provider and she was smoking hot" or something like that. Getting lucky should be between the provider and the person who got it and that's it.
About BBFS, something some guys got. Again, you kept your mouth shut and didn't mention it. You also didn't put under activities "beyond GFE" or "way past GFE" You kept it to yourself for the same reason above, it was an unwritten rule you didn't run your mouth about BBFS. If you ventured down Telephone Road you always covered up, no matter what, the same for Mexico and Costa Rica. The shame about BBFS is that it is the most normal thing in the world, but we all put ourselves at a certain risk by seeing many partners, same for the ladies and the gentlemen.
So did I share any of this information with anybody. Yes, two extremely close friends that I had visited their home and we shared our Facebook pages with each other. We all knew we could trust each other with some things in the hobby and keep things to ourselves. Things were so different then, for example we used to hang out at a Mexican restaurant on Richmond and Greenbriar every Friday night. Guys would be there eating and socializing and some of the ladies would come by and you could meet them as a person instead of a picture on the hobby sites. I met many providers there and followed up with a session within a month.
Keeping your mouth shut isn't just old school hobby, the two things I mentioned hold true today. If you get something special you aren't a hero if you share it, but set up the lady and other guys to fail. If you let it be known that some lady gave you bareback, then I guarantee you that other guys will expect the same thing. If they don't get it they get pissed and write a half assed review of her, then she reads the review and wonders why. (for the record, the mens area and ladies area aren't 100% secure as stuff gets out)
OK, hobby 101 lessons ended for today.